August 21, 2007 11:11am CST
Do you agree to the idea that,college students shouldn't hae girfriends or boyfriends? In my opinion,campus love is common just like three meals a day. So I am in favor of that.
5 Mar 08
Why college students shouldnt have gf/bf? you mean for campus love? Hmmm...for me, its better not to have gf/bf in campus, because you will not concentrate 100% with your class, since you're miss one another, then you will have frequency meeting more than once a day... i dont want to have such relationship... i prefer someone who already working in other place, but still in one city... the more frequency meeting, the less i found to be boring and i will not miss that person compare to the seldom one... i dont want also my classmates will say something or joking me because of that person... even its only joking, but i dont like it...
• United States
21 Aug 07
I think it can be a positive affect on some people, and a distraction on others. There are some people who need constant attention and need to always have that person there, and that can be a distraction because when you are not alone you inevitably begin to think about entertaining a person or having fun with them. In the meanwhile, your studies, or other aspects of school will suffer. I actually had the adverse experience in college. I dated exclusively one girl, my now ex-gf from high school, through my first two years of college. She was actually a pretty stabilizing affect on me. It was nice to know that I had support and someone there for me. We are still pretty good friends and it did not disrupt my learning or school life at all. Real love is never common. I've seen people sleep around and try to find companionship in school and just end up miserable. It's nice sometimes to have someone to lean on who you know is there for you.