Baby Showers?

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I've started buying stuff for my baby shower. I wanted to start planning it because I don't want my sisters to be the ones to send out the invitations since they don't know who all my friends are..Well my question is WHO IS SUPPOSED TO PLAN THE BABY SHOWER? My bf thinks friends or family but I tell him that it's okay if I plan it myself. And the other question is CAN GUYS GO TO THE BABY SHOWER? I always see Men at baby showers like the father and friends. But he says they aren't supposed to. So any Idea's ladies? Oh yeah also what is good food to have at a baby shower!?