Do you treat people nice just to get the return back?

@m_5ugar (1013)
Malaysia
August 21, 2007 8:22pm CST
I mean did you do nice things to people so that the people will treat you the same as you did to her or him?
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xiongyijun
@xiongyijun (171)
• China
22 Aug 07
sorry to say that i can not do this, because i feel it wired to do so. there is only one reason i treat people nice---i love them. of course, i would not treat people who i don't love bad. i just keep distance from them and treat them according to the social moral or ritual.
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teddy
@m_5ugar (1013)
• Malaysia
22 Aug 07
I just treat all people nicely. It just come from the heart. The sincerity to do good things to others.
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xiongyijun
@xiongyijun (171)
• China
22 Aug 07
a good guy you are. but i can not do this if people are evil to me or to others.
teddy
@m_5ugar (1013)
• Malaysia
27 Aug 07
Even though he or she do bad things to me. I just won't do the same things. Just treat them nicely.
Amber
@AmbiePam (85976)
• United States
22 Aug 07
Do I treat people nice, just so they will be nice to me or do things for me in return? No, I don't. That wreaks of being a fake person, and I never want to turn into someone who is all about 'me.'
Amber
@AmbiePam (85976)
• United States
27 Aug 07
Probably so, but I don't associate with them.
teddy
@m_5ugar (1013)
• Malaysia
27 Aug 07
Yes, it's true. Just pretend to do nice. There's some people who have this kind of habit. Am I right?
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Magikrose
@magikrose (5429)
• United States
22 Aug 07
I treat people nice because for one I was taught to be nice to everyone plus it is the right thing to do. If they have done nothing to hurt you then you have no reason not to be nice to them.
teddy
@m_5ugar (1013)
• Malaysia
27 Aug 07
Yes. True. Very true. Thanks for the response.
lisa_wxy
@lisa_wxy (393)
• China
22 Aug 07
i think it is natural to do nice to others. if everybody of us behavior in this way,it is no wonder that our society can become more harmonious. be nice to people around you can help you keep good moods.