Two-Timer?

Philippines
August 30, 2007 7:50am CST
Is it ok to have a boyfriend/girlfriend on text while having another boyfriend/girlfriend in person?
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6 responses
@kaye0603 (48)
• Philippines
30 Aug 07
no! i just can't accept that.. you're really cheating when you do that that's just bad..
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@meemingNEW (2226)
• Philippines
30 Aug 07
I don't think it is good.. it's not at all. I mean, you're in a relationship with someone for real but then you have some other girls/guys in text. It is still considered cheating. You are cheating them both. So even if it's just in text, sooner or later.. it may eventually lead you into deciding which one you choose to be with.. or rather you lose both of them if you won't straighten out things. Best of luck.
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@aissar (414)
• Malaysia
30 Aug 07
Of course its not okay. First, it destroys relationships, suppose one of your girlfriends finds out. It's still counted as cheating. It's hurtful to BOTH of them. While you may think you can get away with it, eventually the secret will be out. It ALWAYS will. So don't be a two-timer.
@lightningMD (5931)
• United States
30 Aug 07
No,it isnt alright it is cheating. Doesnt matter if its online or in person if you are spending significant time with them you are cheating. How would you feel if you found out your real time girlfriend was chatting and texting another guy?
@puchapox (579)
• Philippines
30 Aug 07
Of course it isn't right..If you tell the person you text with that you are his/her gf/bf then its the same as committing to him/her in real life. I think if it was harmless flirting then it must be ok, but once you put in the word girlfriend or boyfriend then its not harmless flirting but cheating. Did this happen to you?
@Laurla98 (786)
• United States
30 Aug 07
no. its not ok. Its still cheating. Its still being sneaky and deceptive. Unless both girls/guys know that you have an open relationship its cheating.