Child with Downs

@cderrs (69)
September 2, 2007 8:26pm CST
My mother is 39 and has just got pregnant. She has had multiple tests to look for deformaties and downs syndrome. If the child has downs she will abort. Do you think that this is selfish? Her reasoning is that as the child progresses, it needs constant help. If anything happened to her, she wouldn't want her family t ohave the burden of looking after a person for all of their life. She would also be unable to cope. Do you think this is unfair on the child, or agree with her point of view? (she has two children, 16 and 18)
1 response
• United States
3 Sep 07
Hi,Sometimes its a hard dission to make but I just want to say that i was 39 when i had my last child and I have to say its hard not knowing if your baby will be alright, but just put it in the lords hands and he will take care of it.I hope and pray that you make the right dession and every thing goes good for you. Pray about it and what ever happens trust god to give you the answer.My prayers will be with you.God Bless