We read a lot of discussion topics related to 'divorce"

@ssh123 (31073)
India
September 3, 2007 10:18pm CST
People who have so much misunderstandings are those who never married at all. Any improvement on this statement?
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4 responses
lilaclady
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
4 Sep 07
I have never actually been married, I have had serious relationships and I have a lot of married friends around me so I think I have seen enough to understand the pros and cons of divorce, I think people can learn from others plus the fact I think marriage it self is becoming very insignificant.
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ssh123
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
4 Sep 07
Probably the marriage is becoming insignificant in some countries due to their societal set up which is undergoing tremendous changes now and then. But in countries like India, marriage is a good institution which brings in happiness to the married, happiness to the family members and this union of minds and body is keeping the society as clean as it used to be.
valmiki9
@valmiki9 (1171)
• India
4 Sep 07
Marriage is prescribed to keep man chained to one spouse otherwise the society will become a jungle. Even with all the restrictions people go on the rampage .Imagine a society where there is no marriage systm. Then like the lion the strong man will keep a harem and the weak will have none. Speaking of India there is a very old tradition of matching birth charts to ensure compatibility between the couple.This is because marriage is ajoint social responsibility. The husband and wife are like two bulls of a bullock cart they have to share the burden equally. In the west they dont match the charts so Many marriages become incompatible and divorce follows
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ssh123
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
4 Sep 07
Hey Valmiki, you answer all those who consider marriage as changing shirts. As if it is tasting different fruit different day. What a life it is. You better put your comments as response so that I can honour your response with BR
Andy Liu Zn
@andyliuzn (1029)
• Guangzhou, China
9 Sep 07
Well, I am not that familiar with this topic, people around me don't get divorced that often.:) But if they do, we would bless them and wish them good luck in their next marriage. WBR,Andy
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ssh123
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
11 Sep 07
Divorce is a concept which Indian community do not welcome. It is a curse to have such a thing in the amidst of us, ruining the entire fabric of society.
rladiga00
@rladiga00 (1165)
• India
4 Sep 07
I attribute the divorce cases happening in a big way is a social problem, too much of freedom, total disregard for organized society.
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ssh123
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
4 Sep 07
You have a valid point to prove and thanks for the same.
williamjisir
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
4 Sep 07
I think that we need to look at things from both sides to make it more fair. We cannot simply say that divorce is a bad thing. For those who don't feel happy for their marriage, it is better to get divorced so that they can live a better life because life is too short for us to live unhappily. We need to live a decent married life to the maximum.
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ssh123
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
4 Sep 07
Life is full of compromises. One is not so principled as to say that what is said is what is done. With a give and take principle, with patience, one make married live a memorable and everlasting event.