A woman in love with 2 men at the same time?
@tianshangdemen (69)
Singapore
September 3, 2007 10:39pm CST
Hi everybody ,
I sometimes hear about men who are in love with more than a woman at the same time. Maybe true love or maybe lust! On the other hand, there are some women also who can fall
in love with 2 men at the same time. Some people think such women are not "emotionally stable" ... What about you? Do you think this is strange?
Looking forward to your replies.
Cheers!
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@butterfly39 (3904)
• Philippines
4 Sep 07
Well I don't think it's fair to love 2 women/men...for sure there is always one person to love more than the other...guys were just stupid and liars if they'll say they love two persons at a time.
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@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
4 Sep 07
I don't think people really control who they fall in love with, only their actions in relation to what they do about it.
I've been in love with more than one person at a time, and I'm a woman. It wasn't like I planned to or wanted to fall in love with more than one person, and I didn't feel as if I was only lusting after one while loving the other or something. I was just in love with two people.
What I don't agree with is cheating. Cheating drives me crazy. If your partner wants a monogamous relationship and you don't, either you have to say "I can accept that" and not cheat, or you have to say "I can't accept that" and not be with that person. Being in love doesn't give you the excuse to act dishonorably.
@sheenmadness (1286)
• Philippines
4 Sep 07
Hi there tianshang!Hhahhaha... That's what i called foolished heart! But I, personally don't believe in such thing. In loving a person takes a lot of responsibility and its always a choice. So I guess loving two person at the same time is foolishness.
Maybe some are claiming that they actually loved that persons at the same time. But for me in doing so you have already shown that you don't love the other one. Let's put it this way, in a married couple, let say the girl meets a new guy and is claiming that he loves that guy and at the same time still love his husband. That's totally b--lls--t! Sorry for my choice of word but that's how i described it. The mere fact that you have actually fallen for another person shows that you haved already lose that love for for your husband 'cause if you do, you will not let that someone you loved being hurt. Am i right? What do you think?I strongly believe that when you love someone so much, you will do all the best you can do just to please him/her and to make that love of your life be happy. And if you can do anything just to spare that someone you love from hurting you would!
@haixiao (2)
• China
4 Sep 07
Well,I have a friend who likes two boys at the same time.She just does not know how to choose.They both have their attracting personalities and they both love her very much.I can understand her.It is not someone's fault.After all,no one can control his or her passion of love.It's just a problem about who to choose.Perhaps it's a nice feeling,there's several persons who love you,who won't hesitate a moment to do anything for you.But everything has two sides,once you make the decision,no matter who you choose,the other one will be hurt.He or she will be hurt by his or her angel.Even they will still be good friends,it's different.
