How do you add mylotters to your friends list???

India
September 4, 2007 11:17am CST
Hello! When somebody responds to my discussions, I visit their homepage & if I find their discussions of my choice, I respond to them & send them a friend request. When somebody sends me add request, I add them after visiting their homepage & respond to their discussions, but I never reject any friend request. What about you? Do you accept all friend requests here? Do you send friend requests to other mylotters?
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@ssh123 (31100)
• India
5 Sep 07
I generally do not apply for friendship. If they apply, I approve. I write a note that it is not one way traffic. They got to be active otherwise, I remove them from the list. If they expect all the time, I should respond and if there is no reciprocation, again I delete them. I must have deleted thousands of them. Some of them reapply. Again I take in and as usual if they do not participate, I keep them aside. I hate one way traffic.
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• India
5 Sep 07
You didn't write me any such note & am a student, so I don't participate on mylot regularly. But I'll keep that in mind. Thanks for responding!
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@ssh123 (31100)
• India
5 Sep 07
I have sent the message to everyone, some got it and some did not. It is basic, that those who help you should be helped. Even if you are student, you will be working in mylot now and then. That is why I am evolving a new system for handling friends. It will be annunced as discussion for others to know about and give their comments.
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• India
5 Sep 07
Thanks for responding again!