can u fall in love with ur phonepal?
September 7, 2007 3:17am CST
ive been talkling to this guy for a month now. i know his background, his situation, he knows mine. he's got a good voice. we're both interested with each other. we jus talk on the phone, get to know each other. however i have never seen him in person. if this thing persists, do u think that his looks would still matter if i see him in person or feelings would change if we see each other in person. Considering we appreciate to each other. it is a phonepal kind of relationship.
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7 Sep 07
I think you can fall in love with his voice and admire his ways but the physical appearance when you finally do see him might be another story...I'll tell you why..I know that in your mind you have pictured this guy,its just how people are,however how you have him pictured is what you will expect or at least somehting close to what you will expect...I really do not think you can actually fall in love without all the senses involved...You have only experienced personality,and voice...You will still need to experience touch,feel,smell.eyes to really know..What if he is a small,weakly little nerd with a BIG voice? you will be disappointed for sure..If he meets your mind expectations are almost then you will be very happy,otherwise maybe not...Think about it,you do have a picture of him in your mind right? well if he comes up to that ,then yes you could make a love connection ,if not you will end up as just friends...
7 Sep 07
I think yes, it is possible to fall in love to your phonepal, but the catch is it is also possible to fall out of love immediately when you see him in person. I mean you have to see each other first before you can go to a more serious relationship. It is hard to fall in love with a faceless person.