its he really love?
By love2love552
@love2love552 (73)
Philippines
September 8, 2007 9:54pm CST
im married woman who have 2 kids ,like other relation ,it was nice at the first time ,first year of married life is good and then its going bad and bad ,,we started argue a lot of thing and started to not understand eacht other ,always fighting,but aside of that situation ,,i tried to be saving my relation untill theres problem come that i cant accept and i really dont know how to hundle it ,,he become jelouse badly,he accuse me thing that i never did ,its too hurt for me coz in all people here in this word he is the man who really know me and i expect him to protect me..ONE THING IN MY MIND ,,ITS HE REALLY LOVE ME? HELP ME FREIND,LET ME HEAR U SOON ...
3 responses
@jackxav (660)
• Philippines
12 Sep 07
Ohhh im so sorry to hear that love2love...Sometimes life is very cruel,but dont worry,its not the end of the world.Face it face the truth.Sometimes people fallen in love soo much become greedy or let us say jealous person.They are insecure to them selves,they are afraid they might loss some one they love so they really tried to be mad so badly with out even knowing that becos of what they did,the more u get hurt.Think positive always.What is important now is your kids.hope u get over in that situation.And im just hoping that theres no haterd in ur heart.Offerit to god...As what jesus say: Ask to me and you will be given.Just keep on praying and im sure u will be happy at the end.Happy together.god bless you.
@Philxav (733)
• Malaysia
12 Sep 07
You are right jackxav, At times when someone deeply in love and care, they really dont want to loose them and they will be very cautious in whatever move their partner takes. And when they see something which they dont get and other get it from their partners.. they will start to become jealous and want to be very protective. Its all about the faith and trust you have towards your partner.. communication is really very important.
@Philxav (733)
• Malaysia
12 Sep 07
Dear Love, firstly i'm so sorry to hear what happen to your life. Well my point of you..Love is not just a word describe a relationship.. its more then that.. Its caring, understanding, loving, communicating. All marriage life in the begins with sweet memories.. but as it goes deeper in year.. one might feel the pinch.. and start complaining and pointing fingers.. and if one never give up it will burst into more complicated matters.
Jealous is the killer i would say.. this should be avoided it breaks many peoples family life. Maybe the best thing i would say... find a day a good day.. tell him that you want to go out with him.. just you and him.. tell him you just want to spend the time with him. And if you get his approval.. go out with him.. let him be the king of the day.. show how pure your love to him.. and once he is soft.. sit near him hold his hand and start talking about the sweet memories when both of you newly married or in love.. flashback. Maybe at the end of discussions.. give him a gift.. dont expect him to give you anything in return.. because he doesn't knows your plan.. and this is the time you can have a good talk with him. Dont ever talk about the bad things happen to both of you.. just talk all the good ones.. make him trust in you. Hold him, hug him and kiss him.. give show him how much you care for him and how much you want him. Well Love i hope this works for you.. God is there for us... is the provider.. Ask and you will be given!
@love2love552 (73)
• Philippines
13 Sep 07
ohhhhhhhhhhh philxav! thanks so much for the very nice advice its really touch deeply to me but u know ? i tried before my best to hold our relation but not like this way ,.. its not really work, i try again now,i dont want to be back at his life, but i want him to be my freind,...its sad to say but my feeling as his wife and lover is really gone, i want to have a good break up with him ,i want him understand what i really i feel and i want...thanks so much onces again and more power!!!!!i really appriciate the way u advice me!!
@nmhschic2004 (1238)
• United States
9 Sep 07
Just because you guys fight doesnt mean that he doesnt love you. Everyone has problems. As for his jealousy - was that a problem before? A lot of people have problems with their jealousy. Some for no reason at all and they cant seem to control it. And as for how hes accusing you of doing these things thats wrong of him. You should sit down and talk with him. Tell him that how you feel. Good luck and keep your head up =)
@love2love552 (73)
• Philippines
10 Sep 07
hello nmhschic2004...thanks so much for ur very nice advice,im so happy that u write me ,u know what, i been tried my best to explain him , i did it,but its doesnt work,too hurt that ur husband treat u like this ,,i agree that problem is part of our life but this is too hard for me ,and i see my kids suffer also,..i dont care about what other say or think the important to me is my family,my parent is so hurt of what whappen, and very dissaopented to him,aside him my family know me well too,,u know he is seen have problem in his mental ,i tried to convince him to talk to the priest or guidance ,i tried to calm him to back what really happen in our fast ,,how we started ,how we past the problem before ,all..he cried so much and ask for my forgiveness...but after one day he back again and again ,and u know what worse he is also hurt me physically ....i really dont know what is the best thing i do now ...i almost give up !
Thanks so much for writting me again its really help me feel fine and calm here ...God bless u anf more power
