when do you say ENOUGH IS ENOUGH?

let go - letting go
Philippines
September 9, 2007 9:24pm CST
everyone please help me... when do you say to somebody that enough is enough? how can you make the person who hurt you so much emotionally to leave you alone and dont bother coming back into your life?
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8 responses
@remaster74 (4066)
• Greece
10 Sep 07
Well.... usually people who hurt you enjoy doing it. You probably have to hurt them the same way they do in order to get rid of them
• Philippines
6 Oct 07
hi! Thank u for the response. i dont think i can hurt him so that he could leave me alone. i will only hurt myself too. gosh...i guess life can be so unfair!
@nixitin (13)
• Vietnam
10 Sep 07
hey!is there anything wrong?calm down ,then thinking carefully again ,i think it the best way to get answer...
@tanjam420 (228)
• United States
10 Sep 07
well the first thing you have to do is get the courage to be strong... which it seems to me that you are already at that point.. you have been emotionally hurt and you are sick of it..tell that person you are done and you do not want to see them anymore... to get out.. if that dont work then call the police and have them help you.. i know it is easier said than done.. i have been there both in the emotional and physical abuse and it is hard to do but you just have to put your mind to and stick to it... you will find the right time to do it just hang in there..stand up for your self dont ever let anyone push you around life is too short to deal with all that..good luck
• Indonesia
10 Sep 07
I ussually ignore them. By doing so, I guess i manage to make them realize that i have no interest on them anymore.I don't speak to them , don't say hello when i meet them or even look at them. Even when i feel hurt because of their doing, i won't show them so it won't bring joy to those who has pleasure in hurting people's heart.
@khazeemee (288)
• Philippines
10 Sep 07
when to say it? when he'd done so much intentional mistakes, and how, just say how you really feel, when you'd feel that everything is not fine anymore then tell him it's time to part ways because im through with you, can't stand the relationship so you can go on your own now and im extremely okay with mine..
@lucy67 (819)
• China
10 Sep 07
first of all, be strong yourself and don't let him see any chance of coming back. if you don't think you can handle it, you can ask your family or police for help. hope you can get out of the present situation as soon as possible.
@Malyck (3428)
• Australia
10 Sep 07
You have to say it and mean it - to them, and to yourself. Make sure that you know you won't fall back into the same trap just because they apologise and do nice things in the beginning. You have to tell them, and show them. Don't be cruel, but be firm and make sure they understand that you want nothing more to do with them. Don't let them say that "they'll change" (they never do), and don't take this person back. You will need support of family and friends, and if they are or could be violent, make sure that you have informed authorities, or have a safe place to go. Goodluck and best wishes =]
• United States
10 Sep 07
You just say it and mean it when you say it. Tell them that you have had it and you want them to leave. and if they don't, you will call the police and they will make them leave.