How do I know if someone really loves me?

India
September 11, 2007 8:58am CST
I am having this doubt for quite a while now. I have a feeling that a girl does love me but am not very sure myself. She has never told me anything explicitly too. How do i know if she really loves me?? Will there be any evident signs which i'll be able to notice? Iam really confused. Can you friends help please?
7 responses
• Philippines
11 Sep 07
hello there sreekumarn, Normally if the girl loves a man she chooses not to show it clearly. Girls are more discreet in showing their feelings to a man for being afraid that he might just take advantage of her. You know men (not all men but most men do take advantage). Or just simply thinking that he might not feel the same way too. So as to what you are feeling right now. Boys and girls does not really differ when it comes to love and to liking a person. You can feel that and you can sense it if the person has a special feelings on you. In your case your quite confused but somehow you feel that she is feeling the same way too. Here some tips i think that would help you. Its just my own opinion being a girl.It doesn't necessary all girls view. :) 1. A girl loves you when she can spend more time with you with worrying anything., feeling as if its only in this world. 2. When she can smile and laugh to your corny jokes. And if you not around her day seems not complete. 3. If she's giving you some hints, such as a love note (but that is not so obvious but u feel that it was really meant for you),singing few lines from a song that most described to what she is feeling 4. When she feels jealous to someone who wants to get closer to you. 5. When all she talks is all about you to her friends. And when she can always find time to be with your company besides having a very hectic schedule. 6. When she's glowing when she's near you. 7. When she's doing special things for you. 8. When she's trying to make some motives so that you will initiate the courting. These are some tips that hopefully might help you in getting your girl! Goodluck buddy!
• India
12 Sep 07
Thanks for such a wonderful response :) Its really great that you could provide so much of information. Thanks for the wishes too.
• Philippines
15 Sep 07
Dont mention it! :0 Im glad to help in someways of another. I wish it works on you and hope to hear improvements if there are!
• India
12 Sep 07
Hi Sreekumarn86,Firstly you should confidence about yourself whether u love her or not?.And if it is Love then u should told her your feelings. If it because of her eyes or her lips or her great looks, it is not love,it's lust. If it becuz of her intelligence or insight about life, it is not love,it's admiration If it's bcuz she cries every time you try to leave, it's not love,it's pity if it bcz she makes you loose your concentration & slip, it's not love,it's infatuation Love is when you don't know why? Actually Love has it's reason but that reason is unknown!
• India
12 Sep 07
That was a great insight into what is love. Thanks a lot for that.
• Philippines
15 Sep 07
Do you also love her? What is the use of knowing that she loves you if you don't even love her anyway? You just wanna know? What for? To make she feel embarrased coz you know that she loves you but you don't love her. Sometimes, we have to keep things what and where they supposed to be. But if you also love her and you wanna know if she loves you too, then be a man dude! Go and tell her that you love her and ask her if she loves you too. There's no other good signs of knowing what you want to know but to face it and be brave to know the truth! Have a nice day ahead from Kiko and happy posting and earning here in MyLot and Godspeed!
• India
11 Sep 07
Normally it is the way the responses you receive from girl, affectionate, caring these are some of the signs i feel which u can say that a girl is loving.
• India
11 Sep 07
Thanks for your response. :). By the way, do you suggest that i ask her if i really have a doubt?
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• Abuja, Nigeria
11 Sep 07
if someone really love you he or she will do the following things: 1. keep to his/her promise 2. share with you 3. carry your burden 4. always after your success 5. seeking for ways to please you.
• India
11 Sep 07
My doubt is to like, Is it really love if these 5 conditions are satisfied?
• China
11 Sep 07
I thought you can feel it as an adult.The point is,if you do love her,then approach her and tell her.If it is the other way around,leave her as far as you can.Or it is easily to hurt a tender heart.What do you think?
• India
11 Sep 07
Thing is that i didnt have a strong feeling of love or something towards her. But i doubt whether she has a feeling towards me. I do like her, but am in a doubt as to if i love her. That is causing me a confusion.
• China
11 Sep 07
well,I think the best way to acknowlege if she really loves you is to talk about your feeling with her admittedly.If she say yes to you ,ok ,congratulations!!If she say no ,well,at least you get the answer you want .