Perfect wife

Is there suck a thing as a perfect wife.I have tried to please my husband in everyway possible but he still seems unhappy. Some of it is situational and i enable him. But how can the so called perfect wife be happy if her man is not happy. To be honest im tired of trying.Im exhausted.I have comforted and and cradled him for 12 years now..He dont even have to work...I think its time for him to step up and be the perfect husband......

I would say that the perfect wife respects her husband. Communicates her needs. Loves him unconditionally. But we all know that no one is perfect.

First of all, there is no such thing as "the perfect wife". I think that the best wife is someone you can trust to raise your children, keep your house, make ends meet and love you even when you feel you don't deserve it, even when you are at your worst. At least that is how I feel about my husband. I am this way with him. I am totally devoted to him and my daughter. I love them so much. But I am in no way perfect! LOL

Sorry i posted twice i had a typo and though i could go back and change it oh well lol

is there such a thing as a perfect wife.I have tried everything possible to please my husband and he is still unhappy. For 12 plus years i have comforted and even enabled him and it just doesnt seem to be enough. to be honest im tired.I think he needs to step up and be the perfect husband and take care of me.He doesnt even have to work.

It's that last option... The one you love and you can trust. The first two are just bonuses. Well, one can get too lucky to have a wife who can cook well and raise a good child in this generation. But the thing is nobody is perfect. And while you have someone who can do just that, it quite certain that she might be having some things which others would not like having, may be a not so pleasant trait, habits, qualities, whatever... It's just how this world works... Life is not perfect for us to need somebody to complete our own puzzle.