how to find a good boyfriend or girlfriend?

Its just a hit and trial method.. If you get someone good you are lucky..

Try not to think about it too much. If you focus on it that much its going to get to you. But trust me, i know from experience that your better off to be single. Just give it time. And that right guy will come along. You cant rush good things. =) A little over a year ago i went through the same thing. I just wanted someone to date so badly! But i ended up being single for like a year. And it was the best thing that could have happened to me. Before that all my relationships were horrible and never worked out. I think because i went from relationship to relationship. But then i gave myself time to heal from a bad breakup. And the next relationship i got into was the greatest. So try to think about that. I hope you get what you want though. =)

i havent had a boyfriend too since i graduated from college. my last boyfriend was my schoolmate and collegemate. ^__^ after i graduated i got absorbed with work but i tried to date and meet guys. i have dated a few and met many but i just couldnt find a good one that i like. now im just getting tired of dating and going out to meet guys. but i cant be like this if i dont want to grow as an old maid right?? LOL so.. we just have to go out, have fun, meet guys and explore new things. ^__^ if you are meeting guys and some of them tries to court you, be open and give them a chance. if you still cant find someone you like, dont think that the problem is you. there's nothing wrong with not finding a guy you like. and i guess be less picky. ^__^