Women, do you live to be loved by your loved one, or love to be loved by him?

@sarah22 (3979)
United States
September 17, 2007 8:41am CST
Are there times when you question you love for him and his for you? Love is very stronge.
3 responses
@mamasan34 (6518)
• United States
17 Sep 07
I don't know, most often I do both. I live to be loved and love to be loved by my husband, but I know that if something were to happen, I could live on without him. Love is very strange, but strength in yourself needs to be stronger. I do'nt question my love for him or his love for me. I know we love each other very strongly!
1 person likes this
@sarah22 (3979)
• United States
18 Sep 07
thats a wonderful answer and you have a great heart, thanks for your responce
1 person likes this
@mamasan34 (6518)
• United States
22 Sep 07
Thanks for the compliment! It took a long time to become this way and to think this way. For many years I didn't feel like that in my other marriages. This one I know is true love.
1 person likes this
@jillmalitz (5131)
• United States
17 Sep 07
I love to be loved by him. To me "living to be loved..." is almost like putting a condition on love. Love has no condition. Love is not always easy but loving each other can be a trong point for any couple.
1 person likes this
• United States
26 Sep 07
Just when I start to doubt his love for me, he turns around and says or does something amazing (usually something amazingly simple) to dispell all doubt. As a side, but related note, I strongly encourage everyone in this discussion to check out "Love and Respect," a book by Emmerson Eggerichs.