i need a baby boy!

United States
August 11, 2006 12:25am CST
Hi I had lost my baby boy at age 3 weeks to SIDS there is still a huge hole in my heart because he's not here with me anymore and I need that special feeling of carrying a baby inside of me and holding him when he's born if it's a boy I know that it wont bring seth back to me but I would have the newborn that I'm missing again I wouldnt feel as empty inside is there any tip's on trying to concieve a boy that anyone would know about?
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@acdc0805 (979)
• United States
9 Oct 06
its hard to determine gender. But I think that no matter what i would have, i would be very please with a boy or a girl. I'm sorry about your loss, i hope htings get beter for you.
• United States
27 Nov 06
Very well said you should get best responce
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@Tanya8 (1733)
• Canada
16 Oct 06
I have no advice, but I am so sorry this happened.
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@mai720 (327)
• United States
9 Oct 06
sorry about ur babyboy. i havnt heard about ways to conceive a boy though.
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@jzcb87 (1797)
• United States
16 Oct 06
Wow, I'm so sorry to hear that. Do you really think you can replace him though? Will getting another baby really help you? It's still not him. I guess we mourn in different ways though.
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@Bettyann (2485)
• United States
27 Nov 06
I am very sorry to hear about your baby boy! I have no kids my self and was told that I can't have them so i kinda know what your feeling! But just wait and if its ment for you to have a another baby then you will have one! God Bless you and my prayers are with you! And again I am so sorry for your loss!
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@suren2k6cse (2621)
• India
27 Nov 06
sorry, i dont know what tip's to say
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@heat2502 (764)
• United States
26 Nov 06
I'm sorry about your lose..i don't know how to help you. Good luck
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• United States
27 Nov 06
Conceiving a boy is simply a matter of the father and what he can produce. Unfortunately the mother can not do anything to change that. Oddly enough, when King Henry would behead his wives for not giving him a boy it was actually HIS fault, not theirs! My cousin lost a baby to SIDS... it's a very hard thing. My heartfelt prayers go out to you. I hope you can conceive again. And no matter what you have, I'm certain you will love that baby.
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@ESKARENA1 (18261)
26 Nov 06
blessed be my heart goes out to you but please take time to heal, sit back and take stock please oh please let yourself go through the grieving process as you will start to put your life back together
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• United States
27 Nov 06
Hello, I am sorry for your loss. I don't have any tips since I believe this is up to nature. It has been a while since you posted this, so I am wondering if you have gotten pregnant yet.
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• United States
26 Nov 06
I am so sorry for your loss. I would advise taking time to heal emotionally:) Stress can make conception difficult.
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@shineison (874)
• Uganda
17 Dec 06
I am sorry for your baby BUT I pray for you to have a baby
@diansinta (7544)
• Indonesia
30 Dec 06
amien
@natliegleb (5175)
• India
31 Mar 13
just go for it without any thoughts and it is a great feel anytime and you will cherish it
• India
31 Mar 13
I am really sad to know abour loss. Do you think a baby boy can help u come out of this situation y not a girl? U need a baby but right now try to come out of this emotional stress. Dont thin whether boy or girl whatever the gender accept as gods gift.
@tessie (50)
• Nigeria
9 Jan 07
There is no tip on concieving a boy, all you have to do is pray to God he is the only one that gives.
• India
9 Jan 07
baby - i love my babies a lot
common dear in which century are u lliving, now a days a boy or a girl all are equal and i think u should not worry about your baby whether it is boy or girl, simply accept the baby as a god gift and i am sure u will love it a lot.
@phon4u (2215)
• Laos
17 Jan 07
this is a quite old post. I don't think the owner comes to check it here.
• India
9 Jan 07
According to me the gender doesn't matter. Go for a baby either a boy or a girl doesn't matter. U should have equal feelings for both
@zakhir (50)
• Mauritius
8 Jan 07
I'm very sorry for you, you must have loved your baby a lot. As i'm a boy, its difficult for me to imagine your pain. But i'm sure that must Be hard for you. I'll pray u get a nice son in great heath.
@jdalaqui (1073)
• Philippines
28 Mar 13
Sorry to hear that news. I have a little knowledge on massage therapy and they told us that it could help. Try a massage therapist who knows how to work on body parts that has to do with conception. I think you also need rest before your next conception. I whispered a prayer for you.