Marriage or not!

China
September 21, 2007 10:49pm CST
My cousin has the same age with me,she got married this month.I couldnot understand why lady should marry,I still think I am a girl!Maybe I am a fool in marriage,but I think marriage is based on solid economy and mutual understanding.It should not be so urgent and so curt.There is only there months from their first met to marriage! I maybe regret in future if I were her! I hope she will be happy!Wish her good luck,anyway!
1 response
@ailema4ever (2668)
• Finland
22 Sep 07
I agree with you that 3 months is probably too short to get to know each other better. I wish your cousin LUCK, too. But if they're both committed and they like each other and they put enough effort to keep the marriage alive, I think it can still go on smoothly. I myself believe that before a marriage, you should at least get to know each other for a year and love should exist, too, besides commitment and mutual understanding. But people are different and they make different choices. As long as they're old enough to know the consequences and they're willing to take the risk, so be it.