Ladies...How would you feel?

@ebusaf (329)
United States
September 22, 2007 4:28pm CST
How would you feel if your man called you a BI#$H during an arguement? Would you be angry, or is it just another word?
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@reeseyj (906)
• United States
22 Sep 07
My husband does it all the time and I hate it.
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@zabawaus (1730)
• United States
22 Sep 07
Hi reeseyj, I didn't like the way your husband speaking with you and I felt really upset. So hopefully you have some good words for him too :)
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@reeseyj (906)
• United States
24 Sep 07
thanks
@Dee351972 (743)
22 Sep 07
My husband does do that from time to time. I just call him a bad name back or walk away. Later he says sorry and it ok. Doesnt realy mean anything when they say it mad.
@ebusaf (329)
• United States
23 Sep 07
Yea my husband did it a few times too. But I ain't no push over, so I had to let him know.
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@ESKARENA1 (18261)
22 Sep 07
it would be a deal breaker. I will not be de humanised not even in anger, if he wants to talk to me like that then our relationship is over blessed be
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@ravinskye (8237)
• United States
22 Sep 07
I would be really upset. To me its not just another word. It can be very insulting and hurtful. Once someone hurts you with saying something like that its very hard to get over.
@zabawaus (1730)
• United States
22 Sep 07
Hello ebusaf, I would be totaly angry. And i am very famous around me with my quick temper I even may attack him :) I am sure I will be the one who is beaten but I can not control myself :) This and other insulting words can never be a other word to me. My husband can not even say shaddy ( cute way of shut up ). It is all respect that we have to gain in the beginning of the relationship.
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@MarieJ23 (1040)
• United States
6 Oct 07
My husband never used that word to me. If in case, he will, I will be surely be angry and I will hate him.
@weehihi (132)
• Philippines
1 Oct 07
it's not just another word..no no!! nobody calls me b*tch..they're good for nothing.. that's not right..that's too harsh..if your man loves you, he wouldn't call you names.that's being disrespectful you see...
@Michele21 (3093)
• United States
23 Sep 07
I don't think it would bother me, I have called my hubby bad names while we were fighting so if he were to shot back with the B word I would just be like, "Oh yeah, I will shoe you a B!!" It would be more funnt to me and not offensive =)
@joimarquez (1836)
• United States
23 Sep 07
im sure gonna get mad if he calls me that im probably wont talk to him for a week or so....he needs to learn to respect me. B&i&t$c%h is not just a word...its a strong word of disrespect. so i cant just let it pass.... if this happened to me.
• Malaysia
23 Sep 07
well if someone were to call me that, i'd be furious and would be even more angry! i'd probably him some bad names too. haha ;P
• United States
23 Sep 07
No i would definitely be very angry. My husband knows thats the worst possible thing that he could call me. And he hasnt called me that once, not even while we were dating. Thats just a word i cannot STAND being called.
@LadyDulce (830)
• United States
23 Sep 07
I'd kick his @ss, then kick it to the curb. Every guy I've ever dated has known that word (among others) was off-limits, even in a joking manner. Only one man has ever called me a b!tch, and I beat him with my machete (sheathed unfortunately), then got to his head with a stiletto. Needless to say we broke up. It's absolutely unacceptable; how can someone who claims to love you refer to you like that? Even when he's mad? It's nothing but a slap in the face and I was raised to have more respect for myself than to put up with it. I don't call my man names, and I don't tolerate being called names. This is not junior high. Blessed Be
@briarose (124)
• United States
23 Sep 07
I would be shocked, he is not like. So if that did happen I would know something is terribly wrong. I would not tolerate it though because it is a total lack of respect for me and our relationship and is very immature. I would tell him that until he could treat me with respect we would not discuss anything further and walk away.
@izathewzia (5134)
• Philippines
22 Sep 07
It will be long until I forgive him. Because my man is a type of a person who seldom speaks of ill words. So when the time comes and he uttered that word to me, it will going to have a big impact on me. It means that he no longer respect and love me that much. Saying ill word is the last thing or the ultimate word he could speak to me. Becuase even we had our arguments, he did not say negative words to me. he did not makes me feel worthless or some kinda of a "b**ch. He still respect and love me for what I am.