Is this normal?

@Sm00tH (2040)
Belgium
September 25, 2007 12:50pm CST
I am starting to let things my father does bother me. He's getting so annoying to me. I am not going to type all of the things i have about him in here but i can tell you, the amount of things is growing. Is this puberty? can't be, i'm 21.... Did you have the same thing with your mom or dad?
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@kishusia (1069)
• India
27 Sep 07
I never felt the way you are feeling. My mom and dad were always very nice to me. I do not know whether your mom and dad are changing or your changing perception about life is making you feel that they are changing. Think about it. Don't form any opinion. They are your mom and dad. May be it is you who is changing.
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@Sm00tH (2040)
• Belgium
27 Sep 07
i think you're right i'm the one changing.
@izathewzia (5142)
• Philippines
27 Sep 07
Better talk to him and explain how you feel. If you think he already annoys you and he is no longer acting normally better clear things as early as you could. Before everything gets out of hand. It is better to be cautious than be a victim and feels sorry later on.
• Philippines
25 Sep 07
when the children are still very young, they are so clinging and so loving to their parents. when have started to age, say reach their teens, most kids will no longer desire so much the presence of their parents. this is a bad sign. for me, kids should instead find more need for the presence of their parents as they are getting older for advises and sufficient guidance in life as they are weilding their own lives. as children get older they are bound to commit more and more errors in life which are really ver significant ones in the kind of future that theywill be having. it will be wise for the children to bear in mind that the parents have sacrificed so much taking care of them and seeing them through all the time. so kids, always remember that our parents have done so much for us out of their unconditional love. now that we have grown up, we should understand all their ways and bear with them out of our unconditional love for them. it is only fitting and proper. now, if the annoying things that our parents do is something which can be remedied, it is best that we talk it out with our parents so proper rectification can be instituted. so just bear with your dad, and even with your mom, when the need arises.
@Sm00tH (2040)
• Belgium
25 Sep 07
i don't have any problems with my mom, but my dad, i have pointed some of the things out to him, and so had my mom, but he won't listen, he does it for 1 day, 2 if you're lucky, and then he goes back to his old habits... sometimes i can barely bear it but i do try my best. i know they have do lots of things for me when i was little so i love them for that. thanks for posting.