how can can you be sure that u are ready to get married?

United States
September 25, 2007 4:41pm CST
I have 2 beautiful boys,great fiancee ,all my friends think that I am very lucky and blessed .the truth is I still fill like I am not ready to spend my whole life with one man,I still wanna go out and enjoy my life.everybody is preparing for my wedding but me I am just scared,if there is anyone out who think can help me I will realy appriciate.
1 response
• United States
25 Sep 07
If you really don't feel that you are ready than you shouldn't be getting married. Committing yourself to a marriage doesn't mean that you'll give up enjoying life. It does mean, though, that you'll have another person to consider with every decision you make for the rest of your life. Since you already have two kids you should understand that you give up some of your life to make things better for you. In marriage that is another person that you will share your life with. Until you are certain that is what you want you should not go through with a wedding, even if the plans are already made.