live in first before wedding or wedding first before live in which is right?

@condom (19)
Philippines
September 25, 2007 10:16pm CST
for me it is right that live in first before wedding so that you can observed the behavior of your partner so if you dont like him or her it easy to go out becuase you have no responsibilities...i prefer to chosse this as what i have observed of many people her.....so if i will you live in first....
1 response
@diillu (5130)
26 Sep 07
Yes, it is alot better to fall in love before marriage. Cause it is less hurtful when a love life goes down in comparison of marriage life going down. After marriage we are related to more persons and there are more responsibility to us regarding to our parents as well. So, it is alot better to fall in love before marriage so that we can understand that person well and decide wether or not we can spend our rest of life with that person. In this way, I think things are much easier.
@condom (19)
• Philippines
26 Sep 07
thats what ive said were the same idea....