do you get shy when you want to confess your feelings to the one you like/love?

Philippines
September 27, 2007 12:40am CST
If For example, she/he doesn't know that you have that feeling but you want him/her to know...do you get shy? what do you do then next? will you say it or keep it to yourself until you die?
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@2babita (1072)
• India
29 Sep 07
Well,I will feel shy to say.Bcoz I think it is very difficult to say for a woman what she is feeling.I think it is better to write a nice love letter and express it.
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• Philippines
29 Sep 07
lolz...what a...I can't
@kun2349 (23381)
• Singapore
28 Sep 07
i will get shy too but i will still tell her.. Because if i dun, maybe i wun get another chance to do so and i will regret it..
@sororravn (448)
• United States
27 Sep 07
The reason that people get shy when confessing a true feeling is that they are making themselves very vulnerable to someone and that can be downright scary. Whenever you do that, you are opening yourself up to rejection which can be devestating even if the person that you are talking to tries to reject you in a sensitive way. This is made even harder if you are confessing this feeling to someone that you care for and love, however, the flip side to that is that it can help to bring real intamacy into the relationship and help you and your partner grow together.
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@nengs10 (3180)
• Philippines
10 Jan 08
Well it is normal for telling someone what you feel,but If I have a situation like this I will not do it,I will ignore my feelings as early as I can,I believe that a true love comes in a right time.
@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
27 Sep 07
find a good timing. don't be shy and be natural. a girl prefers his man to tell with no burden, and natural. If her sign tells the truth to my heart and she had convinced herself then i will go with the telling. Any kind of outcome is acceptable to me. As long as you had told her, she will admire and remember you in her heart, even the result is not what you had been expected for.
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@shy_gal (235)
• Malaysia
27 Sep 07
I will shy and do not know how to tell him my feelings. So soemtime he will confuse what is mt thinking. Hence, i have decide that need to brave to tell him.
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@stvasile (7306)
• Romania
2 Oct 07
Oh, yes! I'm not to comfortable expressing my feeling with girls so I'm shy and nervous when I decide to finally do it. There were times when I rather not speak my mind because I wasn't sure if she feels the same and never told her...
@izathewzia (5134)
• Philippines
11 Oct 07
yes, I found it really hard to utter my emotions especially to the one i like most or love dearly. It took me a lot of courage and the right timing beofre I can say how i really feel. I am short of words when it comes to describing how i feel. I'd rather show it sometimes than let the person know it through my mouth.