x-lovers turns bestfriends?

Philippines
September 27, 2007 5:35am CST
do you agree that x-lovers can become best of friends? in my own point of view there's no way that x-lovers can become best of friends a plain friend maybe but not a bestfriend. i dont know about you if you agree with me. :)
4 responses
@shak143 (1280)
• India
7 Oct 07
I totally agree with you on this that ex-lovers can never ever be a best friend. The reson is because the love affair usually breaks if either one of them is dishonest or they may loose interest on each other or one get hurts. And it is easy to forgive but alot hard to forget. And to be best-friends I think trust is important issue.
• Philippines
8 Oct 07
thanks for the response, yeah those are the main reasons why ex lovers can never be best friends.
@Ravenladyj (22992)
• United States
29 Sep 07
I DISAGREE with you completely...I've become best friends with ex lovers on more than one occasion....Just because we arent sleeping together anymore or arent in a relationship anymore is no reason IMO to NOT be super close friends...I mean lets face it you already know each other better than most and if the split was friendly then why shoudlnt you become best friends....
• Philippines
1 Oct 07
you have a point there ms. well i think we have different perspective when it comes to matters of the heart. tnx for the comment i really appreciate it! :P
@diillu (5130)
27 Sep 07
I totally agree with you on this. I think ex-lovers can never ever be a best friend. The reson is because the love affair usually breaks if either one of them is dishonesr and goes on cheating. And the other one is hurt. And it is easy to forgive but alot hard to forget. And to be best-friends I think trust is another important issue that we can hardly trust our ex-lover.So, I think Ex-lover can never ever be best friends.
• Philippines
28 Sep 07
yeah you're right there's really no way for x's to be bestfriends in any way. i can't really imagine being with my X as my bestfriend haha what if i still have feelings for her.... that sucks! hehe
• China
19 Dec 07
It's hard to say ! In my heart , relationship is based on two of us , being short of anyone , it's not perfect! So, 10 people maybe have 11 ideas aboout this topic !