what is your temperament?

September 28, 2007 5:05am CST
a]quick-tempered b]seldom ruffled c]laid back
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@ailema4ever (2675)
• Finland
28 Sep 07
I'm a Melancholy and Phlegmatic person. It means I love details and planning ahead. I'm not too spontaneous. I love organizing things and I'm good at remembering details. My phlegmatic side drives me to be a bit laid-back and easy-going. I'm not overly ambitious. I enjoy life and sometimes I procrastinate. I love peace, so I dislike confrontation or strife or quarrels. I'm definitely not quick-tempered. Cynicism is a latent enemy that I've been successful in conquering these days (hopefully until my last breath). When I'm down, I can be SO dark and I can think that the whole world's against me, but these days I've also been practicing positive thinking, so that helps A LOT. ;-D I'm not a neat freak because of my phlegmatic tendency. I think this is enough for now he he he...
• Finland
28 Sep 07
Hey, at least you realize what you need to work on and that's a BIG step already!!! GOOD LUCK in conquering your quick-temper! ;-D WELL DONE in controlling your anger on the river boat, Jemina! That's already two steps ahead. ;-D That's true what you said: we have to control our attitude indeed. ;-D
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@Jemina (5783)
28 Sep 07
Thank you Ailema for the compliments and the words of encouragement and approval. I really think I could use them. I am sure happy with what I have decided to do. I have grown up with this kind of personality and it's getting worse so I decided to do something about it as it is really alarming you know? I always fume and blow my top whenever things don't happen as I expected them to. I hope I would be able to be more laid back. So, help me God.
• Finland
28 Sep 07
UR welcome, Jemina. Well, everybody has some issues to work on. The first BIG step is realizing it, so I think you're going to the right direction. Just KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK and let God do the rest. Yes, sometimes I also feel that way when it comes to conquering my personal issues: when I'm SO desperate 'coz I feel that I can't win, may God help me...he he he he he...
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