Alone in the dormitory
By charine
@charine (34)
China
October 2, 2007 6:49am CST
It's the Nationl Day in China,people have a 7-day vocation for a rest.I don't have any palns for the vocation.So,I have to stay in my dormitory alone for a week.I feel real lonely and have no one to have a talk with...perhaps,I am missing someone,I wonder what he is doing now.I know he is busy with something and he may not have time to have a chat with me and company with me.I am too bashful to disturb his work,but i couldn't help thinking about him.What can i do? Who could give me some advice??
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4 responses
@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
4 Oct 07
maybe you could find other things to do that will keep your mind busy. like a hobby or something. but i think its not wrong to disturb him at work once a week or twice a week or even thrice a week. as long as its not the kind of disturbance that will disrupt his work and will make him unproductive. ^__^ maybe just saying hi or hello would do.
@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
5 Oct 07
yeah. sometimes you have to make the first move. goodluck! ^__^
@buliangxianren (425)
• China
2 Oct 07
sometimes it is same between us. i stay in my dormitory too. but i don't feel lonely. there are too much work to do so that i have no time to think about it. i sleep 6 hours a day and have a free for less than half an hour. there is no time to go out to buy food. if you feel so, why not to go out . i don't think there is alone in the city. you can go and find your friends .you are kind not to distruble his work .but how do you know there is no time to chat with you .maybe he is busy doing work because he want to company you when you get there .
@charine (34)
• China
2 Oct 07
You don't understand.I live in a remote town far from the city.It will takes so much time to go into the downtown and it will be an unpleasant trip.I prefer to staying in my dormitory.He is not so far from me but I don't know him much,and maybe his heart is far from mine,we seem not to get closer any more.It is apparent that his work is emergency, and somehow I maybe excluded from his life.I don't know...
@milkfish (371)
• Philippines
3 Oct 07
Hi charine. I suggest you call up your guy. Who knows, he might ask you out for dinner or a weekend party. If he is too busy, you could go out with your friends. Or visit your friends. Or have a nature hike. Or read a good book. Or post questions in myLot to increase your earnings. There is just too much interesting to do in this world, you won't have time to get bored.
@charine (34)
• China
3 Oct 07
Thanks for your advice:)Maybe I just cannot bear solitude.So many friend went away from me,left me alone in the strange place.As a matter of fact,It's all owing to my decision and my choice.I cannot go back again,but to go ahead.Nowadays,I always stay alone,hardly having contact with someone.People aroud me are always busy with their own works,they paid little attention on me,and I cannot find a friend here.He is also busy,our relation maynot get any closer.Call him? I maynot be brave enough.
