When you say enough is enough?

October 2, 2007 2:46pm CST
Sometimes if we do have arguements with our husband/ wife we keep saying we had enough,,, but when was it? anybody knows when was the right time to give up relationship?
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@onedollar (781)
• Belgium
8 Oct 07
I have been at that point many times but never gave it up for real.
9 Oct 07
hello onedollar, your so strong, so wish i am, thanks. try not to gave up that quick ;-)
@phayeth (519)
• Philippines
8 Oct 07
we say it when we're full, of all the things are husband's did to us.
9 Oct 07
hello phayeth, your right, we keep sayin it when we fed up, and to the situation as well
@innechen (1318)
• Indonesia
3 Oct 07
enough - its never enough
in a relationship its never enough.for me enough is happens when one from the couple is finally had a guts to stop the argue or even stop the relationship.when we fell "enough" thats when we cant take the situation anymore and will avoid it to happens again in the future.but al of that is depens on ourselves
3 Oct 07
hello innechen, thank you very much, im hoping and i do believe that never enough.
• United States
3 Oct 07
It is time when you both are so miserable and there is no way to change things.Life is too short to fight each day with your spouse.You should separate before it becomes physical abuse.
3 Oct 07
hello sarahruthbeth, thank you, yeah your right, life is to short to argue, just make the most of good things happening in our lives, set aside the bad ones.
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@raychill (6525)
• United States
2 Oct 07
I am going to suggest that you watch the movie "The Mexican" it stars Julia Roberts and Brad Pitt. It's a great movie. The reason I suggest this is that I believe you can learn a lot from movies. The two main characters are a couple and they fight all the time. One of them is asked "When is Enough enough?" and learns the answer is never, because if you love someone enough is never enough. So they ask their partner this and sure enough they give the right answer. Maybe you'll learn something if you two watch it together.
2 Oct 07
hello raychill, thanks for your advice... i try to find that film... im hoping enough means never enough!
@wotfpatty (2065)
• United States
3 Oct 07
Arguments are part of any relationship. When things get to the point where you honestly do not love the person you are with anymore and would be happier without them in your life, then you have think about it. I have been married for 23 years and I have said enough is enough a million times but I will be saying that when we are in a nursing home and we are arguing over bingo. I love him and he loves me and the little arguments are just part of life. We could be arguing over something and if one of us felt sick or something, we would immediately stop and take care of each other. If you really love someone, the good times will outweigh the bad and enough is never enough.
3 Oct 07
hello wotfpatty, thanks a lot, now i had a good example of strong foundation, and even if we say it million times it doesnt end that way.
@lucky_witch (2707)
• Philippines
18 Oct 07
Well, for me enough is enough when the time comes that I have been doing the best that I can do, then still nothing happens to the point that I can no longer take it and I know that there is nothing more that I can give. When that time comes that would be the time that I know that I have enough and its enough.