Do you wish you never had met who hurt you?

@subha12 (18462)
India
October 9, 2007 6:55am CST
Is it one of your wish taht you never had met the person who has hurt you immensely? I wish the same. I think that just about 2-3 yrs back i did not even know him. I wonder why he came to make my life miserable? Why i was destined to meet him? Do you wish the same?
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@cheenlly (3485)
• Philippines
10 Oct 07
Yes i admit i also wish the same before and that also crossed my mind, Sometimes we asked ourselves like that but you know what i have realized that all those things that have come to our life or all those things that had happen to us has its purpose. If you meet someone in your life and hurt you, that maybe to make you a better person and you learned something from that. There are things in life that you cant hold on forever no matter how much you fight for it. Sometimes destiny isn't always good, it becomes playful when you met someone you learned to love, You thought that it was destiny who made your path across. but what if making your paths cross is just a part of the game that the playful destiny create? Making you realize in the end that the reason you thought that was destined for you wasn't really meant to stay, but only destined to make you feel loved and leave you when you've already fallen.
@subathra (3519)
• India
10 Oct 07
Once i was hurt by someone who was a very close friend of mine..finally i decided not to have any sort of communication with him..its almost 3 years over now but fate made me see him just a few months back..i was sitting in the corner seat of the bus and the bus stopped in one of the traffic signal..when i turned to the window i saw this person talkig to someone with this vehicle parked in the pavement...for a moment i felt so bad and turned my face as i dotn want to see him as for sure i know if he sees me he will defintely try to talk to me..anyway i thank god that he never turned back before the signal turned green..I wish i never see him hereafter..
@Shaun72 (15968)
• Palatka, Florida
10 Oct 07
Yes I sure do. I wish I had never met My ex husband he made my life a nightmare. At first I thought he was the ne that was meant for me. I know now I was really wrong. i am scared to get involed with anyone anymore thanks to me.
@secretbear (19472)
• Philippines
9 Oct 07
i've experienced being hurt so badly. but i dont wish that it didnt happen to me. its part of loving and you wouldnt know the nice feelings of being inlove if you dont know how it feels to be hurt. its like having a balance in things. you feel good and you feel bad. there's always an opposite because they compliment each other. one would not exist if the other one doesnt exist. just like we have happy and sad, light and dark. ^__^