October 12, 2007 5:13am CST
how to find true love
13 Oct 07
Have you noticed when you are looking for something you often can't find it but when you stop looking you stumble across it? I believe that is how it is with love. You will find it when you least expect it. It is not something you look for or find, it is some that finds you. Just be ready when it does.
• United States
12 Oct 07
It is important not to be blinded by feelings of true love as well. Many people think they are in love and become totally dependent on the fact that this person is IN love with them so they would never leave them. This opens doors for one or both taking the other for granted. One or both will begin to feel used, unappreciated, disregarded, etc. My point is; when you think you find true love do not become too comfortable and let the relationship grow stagnant. Be careful not to become selfish. Remember that love needs to be nurtured just like a flower. You must love and respect yourself before anyone else will. On a less mushy note: Always be prepared, not dwelling and worried but prepared for loss. Even if you are sure your love will never leave and visa versa, you should always have enough saved to be able and pick up and move on financially. Do not lose yourself as you become one with your love...always keep your independence so you never forget who you are and what you are capable of just in case. True love can be wonderful if treated with respect and realism instead of total fantasy. Even true love will run into bumps in the road; how you handle them determines the fate of your relationship.
12 Oct 07
i think if you fall in love,you do everything for your love that you can't alive without your love..for me,love is no meaning..love is for life,for that reason a true love is not exactly here in your life.,finding love?!the right guy/girl,it is coming in the right time..you can believe that god have a plan for you,.:D take care always..and god bless you..:D