I could use some advice
October 13, 2007 9:07am CST
I have a friend that's a Transgendered Pagan Woman she was homeless and I went out of my way and got her housing and now she wants to throw it all away and go back LA California where it's not any safer. She said the KKK is in Redding California but their not after her. I don't want her to go back South. This is really hurting me. I don't know what to do.
13 Oct 07
Ja, this is a sad situation. You now, sometimes it is better not to say to much. Don´t keep on telling her you want her to stay. You have told her, that is enough. People are humans. You tell a person not to do something. What happens? They automaticlly want to do it. It´s natural. Not wise, but natural. If you don´t say much about it, she will have more time to think. Hopefully she will come to her senses. Be there for her, let her see that you care. As a women, if I see that a man cares about me , I would want to stay with him. Good Luck!