true friendship meet “no death”
By subathra
@subathra (3519)
India
October 15, 2007 11:40am CST
No human either a girl or a boy can live without a friend in this world.But finding a true friend is not a easy task.
Though devoloping a friendship one another is not a big thing but how much one can trust and value the friendship is a difficult matter.Initially a girl or a boy gets friendly with one another in achool This friendship can go on for some time..meeting together studying together ,going out with friends and so on..
When college life starts then lot of people come from different direction with different attitute.I feel this is the place where true friendship can bloom.One has to be very careful in sellecting a friend with whom you can share your feeling ...Unless you get a genuine friend whom with you can share yoursorrow and happiness and get guidence and advice for your future you might get landed unneccessary trouble.There are guys who pretend to be good guys but they can be dangerous to your life..
In my opinion true friend should stand when you are in difficulty and help you to overcome from the difficult situation.This sort of friendship can come along with you until death..
Please do share your views about true friendship..
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9 responses
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
16 Oct 07
Very well writeen Suba!
True friends now a days are rare bread. You cannot find a true friend very easily in this materialistic world. People are so self-centred now a days that they do not value relationships. To be a true friend, one needs to be sincere and honest in his/her approach, they only the friendship can groom.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
16 Oct 07
I wish that you should remain with you in your thick and thin.
@cjsmom (1423)
• United States
16 Oct 07
It is very difficult in this world of today to find one true friend, let alone any more. I don't have any true friends that I can count on through thick-and-thin but that's alright. Would be nice to just be able to sit down, have lunch, or go shopping once in awhile with someone who wouldn't judge me or talk about me behind my back. As children it's easier to make friends in school but to have a lifelong friendship is almost never heard of; as adults we do have our own lives and responsibilities, but you'd think there would be 'one' person out there for each of us.
There are a blessed few that actually do have a 'true' friend and I'm so glad for them.
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@subathra (3519)
• India
17 Oct 07
Nowadays life is self centered and like you say few people get true friends..iam blessed with few true friends and to mention something which i admire is the friendship of my dad with his best friend for more than 40 years..even though they live in separate countries still the friendship goes so healthy filled with utmost care and love..
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
15 Oct 07
yes friendship today is a very difficult thing, I think people today seem to be so selfish and do not appreciate friendship for what it is they take for granted the gift that is in front of them, I consider myself a good friend and I have helped a few people in dire straights and unfortunately these friends are no where to be seen when I have needed just a little support in areas, it won't put me off, I still believe friends are there for each other even when you kicked down a little....friends are a gift and you are right we need them..
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@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
16 Oct 07
Hi,
Friend need is friend indeed. The taste of good friendship will give the right values of friendship relation. May be in mylot itself there are people very less who do not have even a friend in their friends list. The value of friends are more valued how deep the relationship those friends have.
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@OrangJuice (687)
• China
16 Oct 07
Hi, Subathra, you gave a good topic. I don't think I can live without pure-hearted friends.
For our country, most of our pure-hearted friends are the friends in primary and middle school. After we start working, it becomes more and more difficult to make a genuine friend.
But I think I'm lucky enough. I always meet genuine friends in every step in my life, although the qty is so small, 1 or 2 friends.
@shicolate (48)
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16 Oct 07
you are right, it is hard to find friendship that is true, i recently had a falling out with one friend I thought that not only she was a true friend but i treated her like sister! only when I needed her most she abandoned me and became a friend from hell! no only did she tanish my name to our group of friends but she is trying hard to turn my sisters against me! so you see,I am skeptical about true friendship! I must admit this has killed the confidence of searching for one and being that confortable because the consequences are worse to face...!
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@subha12 (18441)
• India
26 Oct 07
I agree with your idea.
But my personal experience is not that good.
At least for one so called good friend i can say so.
There are still some who have helped me a lot.
That particular person used to be my collegue.
I met him at my first job place. From the first everything was just good.
We became very good friends some time later.
I thought him to be my best friend.
I cared for him so much.
I have helped him what I could have done.
But i could not uinderstand in slightest pretext that he was taking only advantage of my serious friendship.
After I moved to my home town, he started avoiding me and then he was behaving in something unusual way.
Actually it was the reason that at this moment he can't get enough help from me.
Still when ever he borrowed money, i gave him.
But about 2 months back suddenly one day he behaved badly with me and from that we are not in contact anymore.
Its really true that its very hard to find true friends.
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