lost love, MAYBE?

United States
October 15, 2007 9:12pm CST
me and my man used to text all the time and say how we felt now we dont hardly talk at all. we had a huge fight about a month ago and nothing has been the same since. i dont obviously know men out there too well to not be able to figure this oput but why is this?
4 responses
@hilary601 (106)
• China
14 Dec 07
i think every couple will meet the problem.sometime we need our time alone. cas stay for long time , we may lost ourself but lost in the love. a little point may cas a fight. after some time pass , may thought it is very fool of ourself.ha ~ just keep a clear thought or be alone for a short time. though i admire you so much to have a other half to fight for !~ :)
@lucky_witch (2707)
• Philippines
17 Oct 07
Well, obviously you know the answer to your question. But have you ever thought that maybe he was thinking of it too? You are both waiting for someone to break the ice. I guess there is no better way than to talk so you wont be both hanging. If you both decide that you must let go... so be it. But at least you talk over the situation you are facing. and settle things clear.
@taylorblue (1286)
• Canada
16 Oct 07
Marriages sometimes do that...don't worry...it's like a rollercoaster. Ups and downs. :)
@asgtswife04 (2475)
• United States
16 Oct 07
I am so sorry that things have turned out that way. Maybe he just needs some cool down time or maybe the two of you should go out to a nice dinner and sit and talk things out. Letting things just build up never helps a situation and he may be wanting you to make the first move in resolving the relationship. Sometimes it has to be you to take the first step...trust me, i have had to do it several times with my husband. I hope that things work out for you and let me know how things go. Good luck and God bless