What to do next after two years...

@topei12 (272)
Philippines
October 18, 2007 8:48am CST
I have this friend who has been courting a girl for two years now. He doesn't want to quit cause the girl haven't told her to quit yet. Maybe he has a chance. So what would you do? Wait or move on!
2 responses
@ayou82 (3450)
• Philippines
5 Nov 07
Love can Wait..and he what he is doing is so noble. I never heard a situation like this for a long time. Some of the men today they give up easily..Specially if you are trying to test them.But he is so noble coz he dont lknow whats going to happen she might say No...or a Yes..well lets see..
@topei12 (272)
• Philippines
5 Nov 07
A guy who would wait that long surely wants a Yes as an answer, otherwise, it would break his heart. The girl seems to be a nice girl who wouldn't just let him for nothing. I hope fairy tale ends...they lived happily ever after. Would you let a guy/gal wait that long if you don't love him/her?
@krebstar5 (1266)
• United States
18 Oct 07
Do you mean your friend has been courting the girl for two years and they are not a couple yet? Or have they been dating and that's it for two years? In my experience, if a guy chases after a girl for two years and she doesn't give him any encouragement, it might be time to move on. I once knew a girl who kept this poor guy on the line for 3 years just because she liked getting attention from him, but she never felt anything for him romatically. They were never dating officially, but she let him take her out and buy her things. As soon as a guy she did like came into the picture, this guy was tossed aside. I uaully feel that if two people are not in the same place in their feelings for each other, then it is most likely the best idea to move on. Besides, sometimes that moving on is just what the other person needs to realize how they feel. My boss was friends with her husband for about a year before they started dating. He wanted to date her and she wasn't interested, so after a year he gave up and stopped spending so much time with her. When he stopped being around, she realized how much she missed him and they started dating.