How you approach your spouse who is mad at you?

@aowaow (1516)
Indonesia
October 20, 2007 4:52am CST
It's different for every one to make an approaching to his/her spouse when he/she is mad at us. How about yours?
3 responses
MarieJ23
@MarieJ23 (1040)
• United States
21 Oct 07
Since i met my husband and until now that we are 5 months married, he's never mad at me yet although there are times that he just act as if he was irritated especially if I am in the PC for a long time and he is in the house. Once he is like that, I just approach him through his weaknesses. I'll be extra sweet to him or I'll prepare his favorite food and stuff like that.
aowaow
@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
22 Oct 07
Yes, sometimes I did this kind approaching, the ice berg getting more quickly melted down. lol. Thanks for sharing your point there, Marie.
wangzhuanxiaozi
@wangzhuanxiaozi (56)
• China
20 Oct 07
I often use the form writing a letter to consult with my wife.
aowaow
@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
22 Oct 07
It's nice someone like you using "Love Letter" method. This is quite unique way. Thanks for sharing your point, Mr. Wang.
ufo_thexfiles
@ufo_thexfiles (723)
• Malaysia
20 Oct 07
For me, I will aproach him/her on his/her weakness side. When the spouce get mad, I will silent for some minutes and when the time is right, I'll start with asking to go together to the spouce's favourite place. For example, bringing him/her to watch movie. If he/she likes to watch movie. Or shopping maybe?
aowaow
@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
22 Oct 07
Weakness spot is a good bull's eye. But doing it too often, our spouse will get used to it, and later it would be had not effect anymore. But thanks for sharing ufo.