How to forget the guy i loved before??Help me guyz.......

Philippines
October 24, 2007 11:31pm CST
How can i forget that guy whom i loved before?I know that he love's someone else ("That's what he told me when he texted me for the last time") and it really hurts me...!!How can i forget him when i always see him (huhuhu):( he kept on going here in our computer cafe to have internet nor gaming..!(I cried outside our cafe because it hurts me when i see him, i really miss him).And there comes a time that i'm absent for almost 1 week for some important matters, i'm questioning myself when my brother told me that this "guy" (my x)is asking why im not present..!!Oh my God "Did he Miss me??!!", Did he realized that "he still love me??!" Guyz....i dont know what's happening to me already...?!Hope u Guyz will help me......i need some advice....pls pls pls.....What you guyz think..??
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8 responses
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
25 Oct 07
I really think the only way a girl gets over someone she loves is to love someone else, I really believe people need that part of the feelings active, I think when you find a new fella you will automatically look back and wonder why you felt so strongly in the first place...
• United States
25 Oct 07
I agree with lilaclady. You just need to move on. Once you meet someone else you will forget all about this guy.
@michfroi (413)
• Philippines
25 Oct 07
I believe that you cant forget the person has been a part of your life because he is always part of your memories... All you have to do is accept the truth, face the reality. this is best you can do... u must think also that youre not meant for each and theres someone better for you
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@plumwish07 (4057)
• Indonesia
26 Oct 07
c'mon girl! you should get up and step forward from your place at now. you already separate with him coz i believe he already hurting your feeling. if not, then why you should break up with him. he already your past. future still there and always believe that you will find someone better than himself. crying its ok, coz tears can heal our pain. but dont be too much. do many activities as lot as you can. doing your hobby is a good thing to do. life is colorful and the world still beautiful. without him, sky isnt falling. without him, the sun stil arise from east. so why bothering too much?
@laurika (4532)
• United States
25 Oct 07
i think if he left you for some other girl, you just should let it be.Try to find something you didn't have time before, like som hobbies.Or go and learn something new, what will take you mind ut of him.I am sure the truth love is still waiting for you somewhere there and one day you will meet it and will be happy again.But now you just need to get over it.Get along with your friends and spend time with somebody who cares about you.
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@brandy78 (159)
• Canada
25 Oct 07
i know how you feel.. I am not quite that upset but then I have been splitting up with my guy for years and years and now its just not as hard.. the hard part it making your mind and your heart feel the same way.. I dont know how you get over someone because I am having a tough time with it myself but I do know that its not good to read to much into simple questions or comments from him.. He could just be trying to make conversation.. I am not sure I agree you should try to find someone else right away but I guess you gotta to do what you gotta do.. I have tried that theory but it didn't work as I wasn't over the first guy yet. anyway If you want to chat sometime I know how lonely this time can seem.. Good luck and take care of yourself
• Philippines
26 Oct 07
Thanks friend.....^^I hope that someday i'll find the guy who will love me for the rest of my life...it's really hard to forget him...because we don't have a "FORMAL BREAK UP"..he just texted me that i have to go on my own and find another guy..(huhu).He say "SORRY" for all the wrong things he done.....that's it...
• Indonesia
25 Oct 07
Here is the magic words for u - Part 1 taken from Ost FF - Melodies Of life alone for a while I've been searching through the dark. for traces of the love you left inside my lonely heart. To weave by picking up the pieces that remain, melodies of life...love's lost refrain... Our paths they did cross, though I can not say just way. We met, we laughed, we held on fast and then we said goodbye. And who'll hear the echoes of stories never told? let them ring loud till they unfold. In my dearest memories, I see you reaching out to me. Though you're gone, I still believe that you can call out my name... A voice from the past, joining yours and mine. adding up the layers of harmony. and so it goes on and on...melodies of life, to the sky beyond the flaying birds...forever and beyond... so far and away, see the bird as it flies by, gliding through the shadows of the cloud up in the sky. I've laid my memories and dreams upon those wings. LEAVE THEM NOW AND SEE WHAT TOMMORROW BRINGS. In your dearest memories, do you remember loving me? was it fates that brought us clise and now leave me behind... A voice from the past, joining yours and mine. Adding up the layers of harmony..and so it goes on and on. Melodies of life...to the sky beyond the flying birds...forever and beyon IF I SHOULD LEAVE THIS LONELY WORLD BEHIND. YOUR VOICE WILL STILL REMEMBER OUR MELODY. NOW I KNOW WE'LL CARRY ON. MELODIES OF LIFE...COME CIRCLE ROUND AND GROW DEEP IN OUR HEART, AS LONG AS WE REMEMBER... Note : keyword you should learn from this lyric typed in capital words. Learn it...
• Philippines
25 Oct 07
girl, don't avoid him...life goes on even if you're hurting you gotta pull yourself together and show to him that you're doing fine without him. oh the pain's still there but i really do believe time heals all wounds... he's a jerk for dumping you...so just shrug it off...he's not worth your tears...
• Philippines
25 Oct 07
Are you sure he left you with some other girl? I really do think that the best way to do is to move on and how to start it? Acceptance. You need to put in mind that its over and asks him to stop seeing you or atleast give you some time to think things over and that you are hurting. I think you need a closure, something that would hit you real hard, like meeting the girl or something? i know its a bit harsh atleast you'll know if he's only toying with your feelings, making you hope when all along he just wanted to make fun of you or something like that.