could you really cheat on your wife?

October 28, 2007 2:40am CST
I was able to chat with a guy having a wife and offering something to be her gf and all that. It simply sucks. I mean, you vowed to be loyal to your wife and yet he said that his wife will not know..that's why I'm burned with marriages..I don't think it works at all
4 responses
@lucky_witch (2711)
• Philippines
30 Oct 07
Well, they could cheat. My husband cheated on me that is why I decided to set him free. I dont want to be stocked with someone that is selfish. Well, marriage has nothing to do with that. Married or not, if they want to cheat they would cheat, ant there is nothing we can do about it. Marriage is a good thing if you are sure of yourself and your relationship has already stand the testy of time.
@Dolcerina (3379)
• Hungary
29 Oct 07
I did once, that you did. It is always the decision of that person who is married. Anyway I said my opinion about marriages many times here on Mylot: Marriage is an old-fashioned custom. People get married, because they think without it they miss something. After marriage they realize, that the goldring is gold cuffs. And it is a big lie.
@deserve40 (1642)
• India
28 Oct 07
No I do not think that I will be able to do so ever in my life. It is not becaue I had vowed to remain loyal. It is just because of my nature. I feel that I should never cheat my loved ones. Even I cannot cheat my own child. My nature is such that I am always caught if I try to cheat my friends and family members. Yes, I can play such games with outsiders and that was learnt by me when I realized that my frankness was taken as my weakness and people cheated me every now and then. So I have learnt the tricks. Let me hope that my loved ones do not cheat me frequently to make me a cheater for them too. I can always forgive them once or twice.
@wotfpatty (2068)
• United States
28 Oct 07
The guy's a cad and his wife WILL know. Marriage doesn't have to be about cheating. If you respect and love your spouse, you would never consider coming on to their friend. Or anyone else. Sure, we all look at others and think they are good looking or whatever but those who are dedicated to their marriages go no further. I have been married for 23 years and we have had ups and downs but we're still together and still each others best friend. Marriage an be very fulfilling and not filled with pain and cheating. You just have to be faithful and trust your partner to be faithful as well.