How to be a good husband when your wife is pregnant?

October 30, 2007 12:01pm CST
My wife was pregnant about three months,I tried my best to take care her,but sometimes I couldn't do any thing when she was feeling bad. Could you give me some advices to solve my problem?
9 responses
@BlueAngelRS (2900)
• Canada
30 Oct 07
It seems you are doing what you feel you need to do already...I am a woman and have been pregnant three times and the best advice that I think I can give it just be loving a supportive and follow your wifes clues...Don't take it personal if she snaps or gets frustrated at you it's just hormones talking in her later months will be really hard as she will be getting bigger and feel more uncomfy just hang in there and be loving and supportive and ask her if there is anything you can do for her.
2 Nov 07
I will try my best to be a patient and sensitive husband . Thank you for this good advice.
• Canada
6 Nov 07
You are very welcome hun and goodluck and congrats on the upcoming baby...
@pkhanna (18)
• India
15 Nov 07
first of all congrats to u .u r going to b a dad very soon.since u have asked this question it shows how much u care for her.preganancy is a stage where wife needs to b given more than extra care n love.even her moods can also change very fast.u need to make her good and healthy food as much as she can.bcoz the nourishment is for baby as well.take her for routine check ups.this is all i guess is needed
18 Nov 07
Thank you very much!
@mplacona (13)
• Belgium
9 Nov 07
I just think you need to be very patient. I've never had this experience myself, but feel that I'll soon :-) Sometimes it might be difficult for the wommen to feel that someone understands her, but I guess this is normal. Try to be patient, and ask her sometimes on what you can help. CHeers and good luck
18 Nov 07
Thank you! I try to be much patient in everything,it's so good and so hard.I hope you will be much patient than me when your wife be pragented.Good luck !
@kwenge (2493)
• Kenya
5 Nov 07
You seem very caring from your questions. The best thing you can do now is to ask her what she could like you to do for her, ask what she is craving for and provide for, suprise her with breakfast in bed or some cleaning for her while she rests. Pamper her to your level best and she will love you more.
5 Nov 07
To pamper her,this is a good idea! Thank you!
• Kuwait
3 Nov 07
When she feels bad just assure her that she will be alright within short time its not a big probleme some times it happend during pregnancey.If she feel bad for along time pls visit a doctor with her.
5 Nov 07
Thank you. She hasn't felt bad a long time, she's healthy.I feel good for this condition.I hope it's continue.
• Kenya
31 Oct 07
Hi i know for sure there is no surefire solution for that.. but it also a uniqe situation you and wife are going through so enjoy the ride while it lasts. All pregnancys are diffent.. i have 3 kids and i think the most tring time is the process and when the baby comes. Be happy, supportive and understand that she is going through many feelings and the ride will be easy.
2 Nov 07
You always be a good mother.I got your advice.Thank you!
@tainpai (18)
• China
22 Nov 07
Try to cook something that she is fond of. Be patient to listen to her about her worries and critiques. You do your best and she probably still isn't happy. But she will love you more. In the end she will be harmonious with you.
• Philippines
22 Nov 07
Hi Arthur. Just be very patient and understanding. Usually, you can do nothing more than listening to her worries, complaints, or anxieties. Walk with her in the mornings and evenings. Massage and caress her at night. Show her that you're proud of her pregnancy.
@zedbizz (12)
• India
18 Nov 07
Dear Arthur When a wife is pregnant the husband should give her more LOVE and attention. Perhaps this is the reason we have two lovely daughters. Unfortunately, my wife had to undergo two miscarriages in-between and that was the time when I had to be more than just a husband. I took care of her as my child. But now fights me....just joking. Always be cheerful and BE Happy. God Bless U All.