What attracts you most about your parntner?

China
November 4, 2007 9:55pm CST
Hi!All Everybody has their own reasons to love their partner. That's to say, everybody is attracted by part of their partner. As for me, my partner is good at dealing with housework. Besides, we have the same feeling about something. For example, sometimes when I feel like eating steamed noodles and we haven't eaten them for a long time. I didn't tell her. When I got home, I found that the steam noodles had been cooked well. When I asked it, she had the same idea.
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@maddysmommy (16233)
• United States
5 Nov 07
Well can I swap my husband for yours? LOL my husband doesn't know the meaning of the word "housework." I would have to say what attracts me most to my husband is his brain and how smart and clever he is.
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@Nykkee (2523)
• Canada
5 Nov 07
I think taskata10 is a guy.
@maddysmommy (16233)
• United States
5 Nov 07
oops i should of checked his profile, thanks!
@Dask1221 (160)
• United States
5 Nov 07
There are many things that attract me and that I love about my husband, like his body, his sense of humor, the fact that he shares in the household duties, he's great in bed, and that he acknowledges that I still work very hard as a stay-at-home mom even though I don't have an outside job. But I think the thing that attracts me the most is the fact that he doesn't judge me for things I've done in the past and he treats me as his equal even though I'm 9 years younger than him. Even though he knows that I don't have the most attractive background, meaning there are many things I've done in my past that I'm definitely not proud of, he knows I'm not that same person anymore, and he loves me for me, the person I've become since growing up and getting past all of that. And he doesn't look down on me like a kid who has so much less life experience than he does. He knows I've had a hard life in a number of ways, one of which he stuck by me through. We try to experience everything together, and he's perfectly happy always doing things with me, because we're best friends. Plus, we share so many of the same interests and opinions. He's a truly wonderful man, and I don't know what I'd do without him. But, I think the thing that I love about him above everything else is that I have a beautiful son that is almost 3 years old, and my husband has loved him from the beginning of our relationship just like his own. He even told me a little while before we got married that he wanted to adopt him legally. My ex-husband won't allow that, being the uncaring jerk that he is, but the fact that he wants that, and would be willing to fight for it, is just amazing to me, and it makes me so happy I want to cry every time I think about it. I never thought I'd find a good man that would love me like that, and on top of it be the kind of dad to my son that my ex-husband never will be, the kind of dad my step-father is to me. I am truly lucky and blessed!
• Philippines
25 Dec 07
Hi Dask1221, We don't have the same husband, right? lol. It's good to know that someone is lucky as me....
• Philippines
25 Dec 07
my husband's integrity and being a one-woman-man.
@kellys3ps (3726)
• United States
24 Dec 07
I really love my hubby's blue eyes!
• China
22 Dec 07
Nobody is perfect... He also has many disadvantages..but he treats me well,that's enough.. His humor is what exactly attracts me.
@nengs10 (3188)
• Philippines
21 Dec 07
He always did surprises,like example after his work he got home and give me a white rose even If that would be a ordinary day or we dont have to celebrate,I love him more because of that,maybe I really love surprises thats why I appriciate of what he did.
• Australia
6 Nov 07
My partner is just special to me. He doesn't mind my hobbies where as past people have found them annoying. I really do love him but I couldn't really explain why.
• Philippines
6 Nov 07
Taskata10, what attracts me most about my partner is her being so understanding. Also, she raised our kids to be smarter and healthier.
@gloria777 (1678)
• India
5 Nov 07
I really like my wife's simplicity and here ultimate faith in me.
@Nykkee (2523)
• Canada
5 Nov 07
What attracts me most to my husband is......his personality, his appearance and his strength. I love it when he laughs at stupid things that aren't even funny to me so hard his face turns red. I love his beard. I love that he was able to pick up huge rocks that I couldn't even roll when we were working on our yard. I just love him :).
• United States
5 Nov 07
I would have to say that the main thing that attracts me to my partner is his smell. he always seems to smell so good. Maybe its his cologne, or maybe its his shampoo or body wash or something, but whatever it is, it smells very good! I also love his laugh and his smile. Whenever im having a bad day the smile just cheers me right on up. I also like seeing it because i means hes happy, and if hes happy, IM HAPPY :)
@raijin (10373)
• Philippines
5 Nov 07
True, compatibility is one of the most important thing for keeping up good relationships. Trusting and understanding are also what I look for a partner, without it, you'll feel like making love/relationship on a brick wall. But there are also times where incompatibility spiced up both paty's relationship, since there are people who unexpectedly feel with each other because of their individual uniqueness..