What do you think about Lesbian??

China
November 10, 2007 6:22am CST
I'm a Chinese girl. Maybe I'm beautiful because many boys love me. But I don't know why, it seems that I'm in love with a lovely girl. But she doesn't love me. Well, for many times I've considered giving up. I know my mother want me to marry. So I really don't want to break her heart. In China, leabian or gay are seldom accepted by people. But I have heard in other countries, they can even get married. I want to get some ideas from you,should I keep on or just give up?? Thank you!
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9 responses
• United States
10 Nov 07
No matter boy or girl whatever you are attracted to and whomever you love is what you should go for..u can always hide it if you like but your not gana life life happy that way your always ganna be missrable.. yes some country to and some country donot i live in the u.s and in almost all of the u.s it is not allowed althought right now there is a few states that do allow it. i beleive wesconsin to be one of them. im not exsactly bure but i think... hope this helps u decide:)
• China
10 Nov 07
MikesWifey, thank you very much. Maybe I just need some comfort from you. I mean that I'm very tired sometimes. I know that's a mistake and I will never let it out of my control beacause I'm a girl who always obey the obedience of my parents. Maybe they will understand me, but I really don't want to make them sad. I will try my best to find a good boy and live happily with him.Maybe I just need some time. I hope we, both you and me will always live a happy life!!
@hanreq (1444)
• Philippines
8 Dec 07
.....uhmmp.,i am lesbian and i have a girlfriend....i'm proud to be....because i showed the real me.....i'm not shy...because nobody's perfect....i hope,all people understand me and accept me......follow your heart to make you complete your self....:)
@hanreq (1444)
• Philippines
9 Dec 07
the right person is coming in the right time....right now, spend your time with your family....:)
• China
8 Dec 07
well,thank you very much... But I don't think I have found the right person. The girl who I'm in love with doesen't care me...
@shmeedia (1044)
• Canada
7 Dec 07
hi vicky, it is really hard in your situation to just be yourself. my ex-girlfriend was also chinese and she had to run away from her home to be herself. but when she came to another country, soon she realized she was still unhappy, because her parents didn't feel comfortable talking to her any more, even by the phone. i'm not sure what advice to give you, but every person needs to be happy with themself, not only think about everyone else. if your parents cannot accept you for who you are, it's sad, but you have to be happy too! good luck.
@shmeedia (1044)
• Canada
10 Dec 07
or...girl ;)
• China
8 Dec 07
shmeedia,thank you very much. I feel better now *smile* sometimes I just can't understand myself, maybe it just happened to me that I haven't met the right boy...
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@wisedragon (2325)
• Philippines
11 Nov 07
Well, it sounds like you're flexible. So keep an open mind. Whoever you fall in love with, follow your heart. Don't follow other people's opinion. Maybe this one is just not the girl for you.
• China
11 Nov 07
Thank you very much. I will try to find the right person. Wish everyone a happy life.
@ayou82 (3450)
• Philippines
10 Nov 07
Since you said youre beautiful stick to it sweetie. And if you turn up to be a lesbian well thats fine thats okay. Follow what your heart tells you. As long as youre not doing anything wrong against anyone everything will be fine.
@ayou82 (3450)
• Philippines
10 Nov 07
Well zhangvicky..you are doing the right thing. Dont feel sorry if you hurt her..As long as you are trying to protect her and be with her its good. You take care!
• China
10 Nov 07
Yes,thank you,ayou82,but you know I'm making a mistake. I have hurt her. She said she prefered to be a good friend of me ,just a good friend!! So I will just company her, protect her and comfort her without disturbing her!!
• India
24 Jan 08
Hi, U r in a situation where i was long back. I was in love with a girl and i use to think of society and all those things. But remember no one cares about you if u remain lonely. I thought about it and i made the right choice and iam quite satisfied with my girlfriend. I think every country should make a community of lesbians and sort out things. I was very happy with my girlfriend but she moved away now.
• China
27 Jan 08
Thank you. But I live in a big family. It's not right for me not to consider about others.. I wish you two happy..
@chamberd1 (240)
• United States
11 Nov 07
Lesbian is gay.
• Australia
12 Nov 07
Most people know that. Such a comment is in fact irrelevent, especially when the homosexuality of the woman in mind was already stated in her first post. Nadine.
@tryxiness (4544)
• Philippines
10 Nov 07
In my country, people are bit conservative here. But, as times pass by, homosexual is quite respected. There really countries where homosexual married is accepted. I think Autstria, Russia, Colombia and Ireland have legalized activities of homosexuals. If i were you, try to go for places where you feel accepted.
• China
10 Nov 07
Thank you very much, tryxiness! Well , I think I need some time to think everything over. I know what I want! Thank you ! Good luck to you
• United States
10 Nov 07
No matter boy or girl whatever you are attracted to and whomever you love is what you should go for..u can always hide it if you like but your not ganna live life happy that way your always ganna be missrable.. yes some country to and some country donot i live in the u.s and in almost all of the u.s it is not allowed althought right now there is a few states that do allow it. i beleive wesconsin to be one of them. im not exsactly bure but i think... hope this helps u decide:)