Who do you consider the Black Sheep in your family??

@ayou82 (3450)
Philippines
November 10, 2007 8:44am CST
In every family there is said to be one as the black sheep. In your own family who do you consider as the black Sheep?? WHY??
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@laurika (4532)
• United States
10 Nov 07
Me!!! Yeah i don't know if I could consider myself as a black sheep, but my family will do. But I think i do the best I can, but sometimes it just turn other way. When i was 19 I run away from my parents, left the university and find a job and started taking care of myself. My mother can't forget this to me, because everyone has a university in my family, so for that I am black sheep in my family.
@ayou82 (3450)
• Philippines
10 Nov 07
Yeah You reckon your the black sheep..well as we grow we learn laurika.
@laurika (4532)
• United States
10 Nov 07
Yeah we grow up we learn, but i still would consider it as a best I could do in that time and doesn't think it was wrong
• Pakistan
11 Nov 07
my eldest son. who is disobedient. He is addict of Hasheesh. He fell in love. His girl friend was also addict. they got married, He was a problemetic child. Now he and his wife both are problematic. we justify to call them black sheep in my family. I earn and they spend. I am a sugar dady for the newly married couple. I was poor and I am still poor due to my son and his wife.
• United States
11 Nov 07
So stop helping them. They need to grow up, my story I told on here hurts, but at least I grew up. It was because no one helped me. When they gave up I had to figure out for myself how to keep going. In this life you have no choice but to eaither give up or keep going. If they decide to give up this was not due to you it was there decision. If they dont give up it will take time but you will notice a wonderful difference in them. Do not give up on them if they show effort like my father has done with me, insted cheer them on.
@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
20 Nov 07
When I was young I felt my mom seemed to take more care of my brothers and sister. I was always asked to do more household chores so I always thought that I was illy and unfairly treated lol ... When I grew older I then came to realized that actually I was not the black sheep of my family. The reason I was assigned more household duties because my mom considered myself to be the most capable and responsible my siblings. She trusted me more than my brothers and sister.
@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
12 Nov 07
we have two blacksheeps in our family before. my eldest sister and my youngest sister. they didn't finish their studies and married early. but today i guess it's only my eldest sister now because my youngest sister is doing her best to take care of her kids and she had matured because of her responsibilities and she had found a good husband. now my eldest sister, married early and got separated after having two kids and had a third child with another man. she doesn't have a job and she's a burden to my mother. she doesn't take care of her kids and she doesn't support them. she's just living her own wretched life and do whatever she wants. if she's doomed in the future, i couldn't care less. ^.^
• India
11 Nov 07
I am the black sheep in my family as i always things which my parents never wanted me to do..I choose a career in which i am comfortable and they wanted me to become a doctor..I always argue with my dad taking my freind's side and that would always irritate my father. I wanted to do a partime job which they never allowed and they didnt want to me to be in mylot and concentrate more on my studies though i said them i would do well in my studies but still i did it going against my parents..
• India
11 Nov 07
I have not consider any one as blackship, since I will keep distance from any one who annoys me. Further What is the use making our member as a blackship? Let us not be a cause to create /foster such quality among us.
@mamasan34 (6518)
• United States
11 Nov 07
For the longest time I was the black sheep of my family. I did all of the risky and bad stuff and I did exactly the opposite of what my parents deemed best for me. So, I would have to say me.