Will you back for your Ex?

@aowaow (1517)
Indonesia
November 10, 2007 11:22pm CST
This one is for the Ex who had breaking you up, not you the one who did in the past time. When you are single at the current situation, your ex is single but is calling you back, and want to attach back the broken hub. Do you think it can be a second chance or a second hurt? Don't you think it's rather absurd where your ex is the one who broke the you up is rare to attach back the hub, because he/she think you are not the right person in past time? Maybe, he/she had something to pursue on you? What do you think of this?
5 responses
@huilee (1010)
• Singapore
12 Nov 07
To me, once the relationship is broken, its hard to fix it back like before... Its definately not impossible... But its very hard... Extremely hard for my case... To me, i rather try to work out a new relationship then to let the same person hurt me twice... Some people might change... But a leopard never changes its spot... How many people can really change for the bettter is the question... n do they really noe how to cherish? tt is really a challenge to someone's mind...
@chamberd1 (240)
• United States
11 Nov 07
Nope. I have never redated, I also don't go back to old jobs, the past is the past. You have to move on or it will be more of the same just more intense and at a faster pace.
@aowaow (1517)
• Indonesia
12 Nov 07
let bygone be bygone
@theprogamer (10543)
• United States
11 Nov 07
Pfft. No. I've said it plenty of times. I've adopted a universal one strike rule in my relationship situation, that goes for future and former ones. I'm not dealing with garbage again.
@aowaow (1517)
• Indonesia
12 Nov 07
thanks
@tryxiness (4549)
• Philippines
11 Nov 07
There's a local talk show host in my country who says that you can never be friends with your ex. Primarily because it might lead to another thing which will eventually hurt you or plainly the trust is lost. :)
@aowaow (1517)
• Indonesia
11 Nov 07
hmm.. something to be pursued by him/her?
@nkhanna (926)
• India
11 Nov 07
what i think that if the Ex has done this for the first or the second time then i guess he or she sud b given a chance but if this has been a repeated thing for the Ex then one should not do it.bcoz they have either taken u for granted or they just want u for the time pass.probably to keep their name in front of their friends or society.he or she is just playing with ur heart.however since to understand a realtionship it takes time.so intially if the Ex has done for once or twice then they sud b given a chance ,might b they have realised their fault.
@aowaow (1517)
• Indonesia
11 Nov 07
there is a chance of giving second chance, but will it as easy as we say it out. that's first. we realized he/she told us, "you are not my type" cliche, and this is already hurt you once. Do you ready for the second chance?