which is more heavy in terms of love????

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which is more heavy in the two situation below: the first is, there is this person whom u love so much that you gave all to him/her... but you truly know that he/she does not love you or much worse he/she only plays with you..but it seems that you dont see these things and you continue to love him!!! the second is, there is this person that love you very much,... care to you as much as others do.. but there is this problem... u dont have feeling for him n u dont want to fool him .. he/she is your fren so u dont want to hurt him and said that youre not the right person for him/her... but he did not erase his feelings for you and continue to love you even if you dont.. which is more heavy????