How can I escape from my wife?

Pakistan
November 16, 2007 3:43pm CST
She is looking to me with strange eyes. I am working on my computer. What is she thinking. I don’t know. She wants to talk with me. But I could not be hunted as I am online and could not give her a little time. She is looking like a cat. And I am saving myself as a rat. What will be its result. I don’t know. She does not allow me to work on computer. She becomes angry when I do not give her the time. How should I manage to listen and reply her?
7 responses
• India
26 Nov 07
Such a critical situation i think both are not understand couples , yu do not angry with her , yu have to spend the time with her also always yu are in online means all wife normaly getting angry, Other wise yu are in busy means tell to her iam working busy i will be free this time.. like that ok , other wise both of us problem.. Be Happy always All the Best dear friend
• Philippines
24 Nov 07
Maybe all she wanted was to get your attention, to take your eyes away from your computer and focus on some important matters like your wife and your relationship. Sometimes when the people we have in our life is always by our side, we have the tendency to take them for granted. When was the last time you have a date with her? when was the last time you gave her flowers? Things like this should not be absnet in a relationship. It's like a constant reminder that you appreciate her as a person. Go and spend some quality time for her and never forget to constantly remind her that her efforts for taking care of the family is a noble act of kindness. And don't you ever forget to utter the words I love you, no matter how long you've been together.
@academic2 (7000)
• Uganda
22 Nov 07
It seems to me you are not giving your wife her rightful time, you have decided to put the computer in her place, all the joys she used to give has been substituted by this computer and the feeling running through her head is that of neglect and anguish. When she looks at you as a cat, she is trying to say, "look at me, am your wife, I need you to involve me in your greatest pleasures" but you are reading it differently Mr. sheenshaukat and those are not good indicators of a healthy marriage. So you will need to reconsider your topic and make it pass for something like this "How can I bring my wife back to my life?" the answers to this question would be very useful to your life and to your wife's happiness.
@xenybb (168)
• Philippines
23 Nov 07
sometimes there r jealousy in every relationship. you must not feel so bad for it because sh loves you. why will she think of negative if you done anything wrong. girls always wanted to be treated as QUEEN. she is your wife prove her that you really wanted her. maybe she just want your attention. there is always a reason for everything ask her what is her problem and am sure you can solve it right away.
19 Nov 07
don't spend your time all on the computer. you must need to WC,or just have a cup of tea,when you could greet her,showing your attetion on her. at all,you should have a talk with her,to find out what happend to you two.don't be a cat or a rat.
• China
17 Nov 07
I think you & your wife should condider by standing on the other side.you can tell her that you love her as well as love the computer.save a little time for your wife,believe she can return you.Sometimes women only need a little.
• Philippines
17 Nov 07
Maybe you're not giving her enough attention. I myself encountered that problem from time to time. You should have a time for your wife to talk. You should ask her why is she acting like that. Maybe you should ask yourself also.