His girlfriend family ask him to marry her unconditionally

@aowaow (1516)
Indonesia
November 17, 2007 1:52am CST
The girl is pregnant, but my friend said it is not his one. Because he never slept with her. I heard from his voice tune and his eyes didn't tell a lie. Yet, the girl is attractive and wealthy, and they had been 2 years. In my thought, why he would reject for this? He asked for my help, I would like to hear what your opinion about this. Thanks before.
3 responses
@terrych (1227)
• United States
18 Nov 07
I think that your friend has to talk with the girl, because he knows what really happen, about the kid. And also he has to figure which are his feelings with this girl, to me the family or the kid (we know is not his) do not have much to do with his decision... he has to decide if the girl is the person he wants to share the rest of his life... it is about love...
• New Zealand
17 Nov 07
I think he need to clarify with the girl on what had happened if he never slept with her. They still need to fix everything first before he decide whether to marry the girl or not. The physical apperance and wealthy are some factors but should not be the reasons for marrying the girl. Love, respect and trust are the most that should be considered...=)
@dreamy1 (3811)
• United States
17 Nov 07
I'm not sure I understand. Are you asking why this guy rejected an offer to be stuck raising a kid that's not his? Does he even love this girl? Money isn't everything. Maybe he doesn't like the family. Maybe he doesn't want to feel like he's being bought to be this childs father. One thing for sure if he claims the baby isn't his he'd better get a DNA test done as soon as it's born.