Which is worse?

I think that both are demeaning an hurt someone deeply. To me, having gone through both, nrape is the worst. It takes something away from the soul. Bing beat up just hurt my body and pride.

Neither are things I wish on anybody. But From experience...Physical Scars from a beating are easier to report then the Damaged Soul of a rape victim that will never heal. When rape victims report rape they unfortunately get revicimized again. Many people blame it on the Victim. Which is a weak irresponsible person who would do that.

getting raped is worst. the victim if specially if a child, loses his/her innocence. for both grown up and child victims, they get their souls wounded, the healing process long and leave an ugly scar in their lifetime. some may not heal at all...getting beat up? the wound is only superficial and could be treated with betadine and antibiotics.