Definition of true love
By mssuhas
@mssuhas (2)
Norway
November 18, 2007 9:01am CST
Can anyone out there tell me the definition of a true love...Is it just a attraction between two opposite sexes or is it a rainbow between two hearts or is it a strong bond between a girl and a boy tat never breaks...I have seen the cases of love at first sight...I wonder how can it happen when you dont know tat person and you are seeing tat person first time in your life...This is the question about which i am confused since my childhood which still remains as a mystery for me..Wat should a boy do when he finds that he cant get his loved one as his life partner due to some reasons inspite of loving her so much and promising her tat he wil not forget her at any cost..?I hav seen many of such cases around me where almost all times it happens as wat i said above...And i have also seen many cases where even if you get your loved ones as your life partners the love towards each other wil not be the same as it was earlier...Many have told me that its not compulsory to have your loved ones as your lifepartners...I think this is the wrong concept of true love..So i am asking you the above question and i believe that you people wil solve my mystery...
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@curtis62 (29)
• United States
18 Nov 07
We all at one time or another have had a first love that we will cherish for the rest of our lives. We may even have had a couple of them. You have to understand there is a difference between infatuation and true love. Infatuation is when we see someone and say to ourselves that person is going to be my one and only even if we have not met the person. There was something that attracted us to that person. True love on the other hand is when you are willing to give up everything to be and have that person in your life and that person feels the same way about you. Another example of true love is being with a person and sticking by them no matter what troubles or hardships you two may face. If you will allow me I will use myself as an example.
Met my true love when I was 24 and she was 21. We looked at each other across a room and I knew then and there she had to be in my life forever. As we sat together and talked she said something that would have made most guys run away superfasst. She was pregnant. I looked at her and said big deal I have children from my first marriage. We got together. In the first year we were together I found out she was Bi-Polar. Which means she could be very depressed for awhile or very hyper and nervous as well as angry and love to verbaly fight. Over the years more medical problems came up that she had. Now mind you we were together for 15 years before I even asked her to marry me. So I could have taken off anytime I wanted but didn't. We also went through 4 fires and lost everything we own except the clothes on our back.
Again we could have gone our seperate ways but chose to stay together.
It has been 38 years we have been together and we are still together. She is now in a nursing/rehab due to her medical conditions but we are still together.
We had our share of arguments and fights and screamed at each other but what we did not do is run. We calmed down and worked things out. Now if this is not true love then I do not know what is.
Believer me when I say when your true love comes along you will know it.
