How many on mylot have not yet found their life partner?

United States
November 18, 2007 7:51pm CST
How many here on mylot are still searching for mr or mrs right? Why do you suppose you are still searching? Do you think you might find them here on mylot? Why or why not?
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@gerald_lian (2188)
• Australia
19 Nov 07
I'm still searching for Mrs. Right, but I doubt that I will find the right one on mylot. I suppose I'm still searching because I never really made a move to find my Mrs. Right and I'm a bit shy in nature. Got to change that attitude soon if I am to find my Mrs. Right!
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• United States
19 Nov 07
Oh I think this is a good place to get more vocal..I think it has helped me a tad with my shyness..Here you don't have to be shy..:)
• United States
20 Nov 07
Good for you ..I hope you find more and more confidence from the friends that you make here on mylot.
• Australia
19 Nov 07
Yeah, that's true. I've been a bit more open about the things I share since joining mylot, and I hope with the help of mylot I can eventually overcome my shyness.
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@mensab (4200)
• Philippines
19 Nov 07
i have not found my partner, but i am not looking nor searching. mylot has many interesting ladies here. and now anything can be a medium and venue for anything. i have heard couples who met and knew each other in chat, myspace, friendster, and other internet facilities. so i am not discounting that it might happen to me too. although i am not counting too much on that, i am open.
• United States
19 Nov 07
I think it's good to put this out for others though..that way maybe someone will see and send you note..God has a habit or working in strange ways..People on mylot seem to all be basically good;)
• United States
19 Nov 07
I am still searching for that one person...I thought I found him, but after four years, he's walking right back into his "comfy" lifestyle...I haven't really sat down and thought about WHY I'm still searching, but it's definitely got something to do with my self-esteem. I don't that I'd find anyone on myLot--right now I'm just not trusting my judgement nor do I really have time.
• United States
20 Nov 07
Wow he was sleeping with someone else while sharing your bed? That is not a good thing. You are not expected to share him..Polygamy is not an accepted lifestyle here in America..I feel so sorry for you.
• United States
19 Nov 07
How do you mean ..walking right back into his "comfy" lifesyle..Can you share with me..so I know .. I do believe you have a right to have someone who really loves and cares for you .. I am sorry to hear that 4 years hasnt made your bond any more sure. Perhaps God has other plans for you?
• United States
20 Nov 07
He said to me before we got involved "I want to get to know you better"...five and a half months later I fell in love, only to discover he not only shared a home with the woman he used to sleep with (which I knew, he at least was up front about that), he shared a BED with her too! I should have dumped him then...but my feelings have gotten stronger and he keeps stringing me along...I'm tired of being exclusive (for the most part) with someone who's not entirely honest with me!
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• United States
20 Nov 07
NEWS ALERT: Mr Right does not exist.Keep looking for the perfect man and stay single, guaranteed.
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• United States
20 Nov 07
that is such a funny answer.The perfect man..is there such a thing ..or the perfect woman..lol.. am laughing despite feeling bad lol
• India
20 Nov 07
i am single, joined mylot only few days before. but right now am doing my pg and will look for my partner only after i complete my education and get a good job. i don't think i might find them on mylot coz here we don't see each other. not all are putting up their photos, and those who display photos, may not be displaying of their own!
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• United States
20 Nov 07
You are so right..some photos of people could be deceiving..Why anyone would bother to deceive anyone..I don't know..eventually the true picture woul be out.
• Philippines
19 Nov 07
are you married? im 46 now, but i got married when i was 42, and he was also 42. i had a high school classmates, way back 1978. anyway, year 2000, i met my high school classmate again. after 3 months, her brother came home from afar, and he was single. we got married after 3 months. we were both 42. he said that he had an eye on me since we were in high school, so finding out that i was single, told himself that he would marry me. we did and we are still together.
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• United States
19 Nov 07
ONe never knows what God has in store do they? To think you were 42 when you got married. Wow. No, am not but am not seeking for a spouse on mylot;)
@kgwat70 (13388)
• United States
20 Nov 07
I have yet to find Mrs. Right as you know. :-) I have dated locally and have dated long distance and have not found her yet. I have not given up on finding her. It is possible to find someone on here or some other website, though I am hesistant on dating someone on the internet. My first girlfriend was someone that I met in an Aol chatroom and my last girlfriend I met on a penpal website.
• United States
20 Nov 07
Seems like you only tried twice on the net ..never know ..3rd time might "be a charm"...It is really hard to know people on the net..On the net you cannot see them or pick up their true feelings..though words really attempt to say lots..
@magica (3707)
• Bulgaria
16 Jan 08
I havent partner yet. I am opened for new possibilities, but not here in MyLot.Just i am realist and dont think that international partner will be better then local one. Here i talk to many people without to concentrate my attention to someone special.The real comunication with possibility for more needs individuality.
• United States
19 Nov 07
ive stopped "searching". plain given up i have. to be honest..looking back i think i found him. but i lost him. stupid stupid me didnt say yes when he asked, i thought that too much had happened to try and make things work. and some 10years later, i still regret that choice. since him ive made some craptacular choices and now i just dont care anymore. all i can say is that i hope he is happy now.
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• United States
19 Nov 07
Oh my..am sorry to hear that you thought you found the one and it turned out not to be so:(
@fredgame (1260)
• China
16 Jan 08
Hmm! it's big choice to make if at first you've come to meet. you just have to wait a bit and see your fate. i'm still searching for ms. right and still praying that when, where and how it's going to happen, God will see me through that tedious task. for i never want to meet my right and let go or break up. hope God will see me through to my dream come true ms.
@mlhuff12 (797)
• United States
27 Apr 08
I thought I've found him. I just got divorced a few months ago. So I am searching for the right person this time. I never even considered finding the person on this site. I have my profile on a online dating site. A guy actually found me on there that is actually only 2 miles away. But we only had a couple dates. So only time will tell whether it will keep on going.
@irene_27 (542)
• Philippines
19 Nov 07
I'm am single and still searching for that Mr. right. i guess i'm picky that's the reason why. And I don't think i'll ever find him in mylot as i'm not into interaction with male members here. I just do my posting and that's it.
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• United States
19 Nov 07
Usually things just happen ..people tell me ..who found their mr right or mrs right..If it's mean to be. ..mr right will run into you and you will run into him;)
• China
19 Nov 07
i don't ! i am still waiting for my mr.right ,and i also can accept the one who is here . aha `````i think love has no limites, no matter age,hight,place````` so if i meet him ,i will accept and tell you all ! haha````how about you ? do you have the same idea ?
@honeylore23 (1081)
• United States
16 Jan 08
Well, i am done searching Mr. Right Guy coz I have already found him. But we are not yet married. By the way, to those who are still searching, well Mr. Guy could just be anymore, it would not be impossible if you can find your destiny here. Because sometimes true love comes in the most unexpected place and the most unexpected time.