what is the age you want to be a mother ?

cat - black cat
China
November 18, 2007 11:33pm CST
en ,i think 28 --30 is just right . how about you and why ?
8 responses
@besthope44 (12145)
• India
14 Aug 10
Yes 28-30 is best and i got conceived at 30 years and have a sweet daughter now
@diansinta (7551)
• Indonesia
14 Dec 07
I am 32 years old now. I've been pass of my date, and i'm devorce. I haven't meet someone yet to be my future husband.
@grace87 (18)
• China
14 Dec 07
i agree with you.hoo
@squaretile (3833)
• Singapore
14 Dec 07
i agree with you! i think that's the age when most women are mature enough to know what they want and be able to handle a baby. some women are ready for a child when they are younger though. but for me, i would say that age range is best. any older than 40, biologically the doctors would say that might be too old.
• United States
14 Dec 07
I think mid twenties is a good age. Just because then you are still young enough to have a good time when your child is old enough to move out of the house. That way when the empty nest syndrome hits the parents they will still have enough energy to want to do something with themselves, instead of being old and grumpy. I became a mom at the age of 20. I was told I couldn't have kids by one of my doctors but her my daughter came.
19 Nov 07
I always planned to have babies in my late 20's early 30's but ended up having my two kids at 18 and 19! My family said I missed out and in a way yeah, I missed out on a lot of clubbing & freedom etc but it doesn't bother me. My kids made me grow up fast and that has it's good and bad points I guess. I always said, at least when I can afford nice things and afford nice holidays, my kids will be old enough not to wreck the house and to come with on holiday lol... now I'm 27 I'm extremely broody and know I'm about the right age for me... so there goes all my theories about why it was better having mine young because right now I'm ready to start all over again with another baby! Maybe in a year or two...
@hammer55 (36)
• United States
19 Nov 07
id say 25 to 30 is the perfect age to plan to be a mother even though im a male ive seen enough at 52 years of age to say the younger the less responsible to be a mother any younger than 25 their still growing up, and any older means you will be in your 50's before their 20.
@ayou82 (3460)
• Philippines
19 Nov 07
Im already a mother when i was 18. Cool coz im ready to have babies..