Will you continue to love when your lover is going abroad?

China
November 21, 2007 7:58am CST
For his/her future,he/she will go abroad.But your relationship have lasted a long time,you have give the entire heart to him/her.Say goodbye?It is too hard.most of us can't do that.Continue it?also too hard.Distance troubles a lot.what will you do?
6 responses
@colydf (913)
• China
20 Feb 10
It is really a dilemma. If you choose to say goodbye, it would be really hard for the two who are really in love, but if you choose to stay the long-distance relationship, it would also be very difficult. Good luck with you.
@helensui (19)
• China
23 May 09
I think you must make sure if you really love each other.If you love each other and want to keep a stable relationship and get married, you have no excuse to say goodbye to her/him. On the other hand, if your relationship is not stable and you are not sure of it,you are likely to lose her/him. Why not go abroad together? Everything will be settled then.
• Philippines
17 Mar 09
of course, the reason he went to work in another country is to save for our wedding and for our future. he is doing it for me, if not for me, he will just stay here and live a simple life the way he used to be doing before he met me. but he wanted to provide me with a good life, to be able to raise our own kids, to be able to give me nice things he could not afford while he was here, and for that i love him more for doing a big sacrifice for our future. it is so lonely being apart but if it is for a better future for us, then we have to endure and stay faithful to each other =)
• China
14 Mar 09
i think i will give up,long pain will suffer if love continue,so i will give up and choose a pratical one!
@nkhanna (925)
• India
22 Nov 07
i dont tihnk distance does matter in love.my best friends boyfirend is studying in US for last 2 years and now he is moving to Canada for his new job.they had their love started from higher seconday.however they still love each other nad are thinkig to get married within a year or so.my firned is in India.it does give pain ,however i think love is all about sacrificing for the other's smile.they both are doing this for thier love and so that they can life their life with each other with full comforts. true love makes you strong.its hard but there is nothing impossible in world.rather you can say that this is their examination of love
@hyzz1982 (1040)
• China
21 Nov 07
i am sure i will love her. but whether i will tell her is not sured. there are many situations. if she go and never back. and if she live a happy life at the abroad, sure i will not tell her that i love her. but if she loved me forever of course i will love her and tell her.