can you forget the people who ever hurt you??

@mari123 (1862)
China
November 23, 2007 9:09pm CST
maybe you or he ,we both ever hurt by someone ,but the GOD said that the the most fogive thing is to forget ,but can you really forger,or you just do not want to thought it ??can you forget the people who ever hurt you??
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12 responses
25 Nov 07
its not easy to forget people who have hurt you specially when those people are your friends
• Saudi Arabia
5 Dec 07
Well said, I agree.
• Saudi Arabia
5 Dec 07
Well I may forget but honestly it isn't easy to forget.
• Pakistan
5 Dec 07
well its hard to forgive them who hurt you so much, i believe that the work that you gives satisfaction is good.if you think that if you will forgive him you will never feel guilty on it than ok otherwise i will not go for that, god is great he forgive us all but we are humans its dificult for us to forgive someone
@bbsr13 (4198)
• India
25 Nov 07
hello, mari! forgive and forget should be our motto.it gives mental satisfaction.jesus was crucified what he said.he prayed god to forgive those people what more he could have done at that time.because of this, he was loved by all.during the whole of my life i have earned no enimy. i do not remember exactly when i had a dispute with some one.
• Philippines
25 Nov 07
In my own experience, I feel hard to forget the people that cause hurt to me, actually until now, I still remember the way that they did to hurt me but, I still on process to forget them, because my heart says I need to forget them and move on but my mind says don't!
• Canada
25 Nov 07
Believe me it depends on situation to situation, but one thing person can never forget the person who had hurt him.
@academic2 (7009)
• Uganda
24 Nov 07
It easier to forgie the people who badly hurt me, but mari123, i have found if almost imposible to forget them, I remember them because some of the hurt they inflicted on me re so permanent around me that they keep the villains for ever on my mind. This some how increases the hurt.
@lyfhot61 (55)
• China
24 Nov 07
If the peron who is a close friend of mine hurt me,I think I can hardly forget her or him.But I can quickly accept the terrible fact.Some little things ever hurt were quickly forgotten by me because I always make my life as happy as possible.
@hanqz25 (10)
• China
24 Nov 07
We should learn to give way to others when we are in different ideas,so that will live in harmoy with others,and when you are hurt by others,forgive him means forgive yourself.Acutlly we are all not god,it's impossible to forget what they have done completely,but we can be happier if we don't tohch it.
@faith210 (11233)
• Philippines
24 Nov 07
Hi mari123! I do know that in forgiving you will have peace in your heart and i do believe in the Words of God. I usually forgive people who hurt me and have been friends with them. But I can never forget the things that they did to me. I guess really don't allow myself to forget so that they can never hurt me the same way again. I do forgive the person and forget the hurt and pain in time but I will not forget the way it happened so that i can avoid it from happening again. I guess, you might say i didn't totally forget then...well, probably but i guess, i am just trying to protect myself. Just my thoughts. take care and have a nice day.
• United States
24 Nov 07
I can forgive just about everything but never forget. Remembering the bad things that people have done to us is one of the precautionary safties we have. I can forgive but will always keep in mind the harmfull things so that I will not let my guard down to be hurt again over the same matter.
• China
24 Nov 07
we hurted sombody, at the same tiem we are also hurted by the other ones. The most important thing is to not think of the hurts, don't pay more attention to do it. but it is very dificult to do so. Am i right?