Do u think that everyone's destiny is already written?

That is a question I often think about. I also believe that you can control your own life and make it happen in your own way. But there are alwasys something that we cannot control. It happens everyday. So, to some extent, I have to believe that everything happens for a reason. Maybe it is meant to happen. I'm not religious and I don't believe in astrology. But there are something that cannot be explained by science. So I guess we cannot escape our fate... Seems kinda contradictive though...

I don't believe that our destiny is already written. We have no proof of this . Astrologers tell our future and they also tell us that so and so is going to happen. But how come they also give people some way or other to come out of this problem. If Astrologers can change what is written in you destiny, then it is proved that nothing is written.........I will not say that I make my destiny....I think we all just live our life and and different events of our life sum up together to make up our destiny...every thing is uncertain in life so we can never say destiny is aready written.

i believe that the destiny is our own to pave. the true destiny maybe written out there somewhere, but im sure that its not something a human can read. so i don't believe in the astrology or numerology. better off not believing it.

As for me. i believe in pre-destination. I mean, each of us has his predestination wherein one has to be like this and like that because he/she is destined to be one. If you got mearried earlier, then you are destined to be married earlier, likewise, if you grow old single, then you are also destined to be like that. That's how i believe in my fate. Cheers!

I agree with you. All we write our destiny. Have you ever seen the movie "Sliding doors"? Also it is according with us. In my country, Italy, there is also a TV program speaking about this speech. But it's also true that something happens and nobody can give an explanation...